i LOVE jeff. and i get really horny when i see him. and i think about him ALL THE TIME! no joke. every thing reminds me of HIM. i always cry over him almost every night. i think hes the one!!!! n i wanna have his babys. and im only 15 and hes 20! weve had our "moments" 2gether n it was da best now its ova n i still love him ALOT!!!!! even more. and these are REAL feelings i noe im in LOVE with him. age duznt matter 2 me bcuz he is PERFECT 4 ME! and ive tried and tried 2 stop. but i cant help these feelings. am i 2 obsessed???
2006-08-09 13:15:26 · 20 answers · asked by poochiequeen100 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are young, stupid, and sexually stimulated, but probably not obsessed.
2006-08-09 13:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
crying over a guy every night is sad. as for babies are you serious. you are 15 and are not even a woman yet let alone old enough to be a mother. everyone has had the feelings that someone is the one and they have them at any age and believe it or not you will have them about guys other than jeff. i think you may be too obsessed. why not go out with your friends and start looking at other guys. everytime you think of jeff force yourself to stop. these feelings will pass. good luck.
2006-08-09 20:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... I think you are obsessed, but don't take it to heart as yet cause you will need to ask yourself a few questions.
Even though I love him, do I KNOW him?
Even though I love him, does he love me?
Even though I love him, do I a job to allow us to survivie together?
Even though I love him, can I give him all I have? (Which excludes sexual intercourse..)
After asking those questions to yourself, think about it, have you ever tried travelling? Do you think you have spent every second of your life contented? Are you happy just by yourself?
If not ALL the answers you have for the above questions, then I suggest, please move on with life. Enjoy life first, get a good study qualification. Only by then, you can and just right to find a loving husband..
Cheers!
2006-08-09 20:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get horny everytime you see him than that's all you want him for, it's a sexual desire that has become an obsession. you need to think to yourself, I'm young, I will change in the next few years, i will want different things than he will, if i change for the better, will he be willing to change for me if it's needed. the answer is probably no because he's a lot older than you and experiences a lot more different things than you. you need to start focusing on something else...try a sport of some sort. softball, basketball, badmiton, tennis, golf. you're focusing on sex and at your age, that's a very bad thing. I'll pray for you. You need it.
2006-08-09 20:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...yes, i think you are a little obsessed...sorry to tell ya. And you prolly shouldn't be obsessed with a 20 year old guy...and you be 15. That's not good. Your way too young to know what love really is. BUT...If he's not intrested in you anymore...try hanging out with guys around your age...And you shouldn' be feeling horney around your age either...you need to calm down and focus on being a teenage...focus on school...you kno. Well n e ways...Good Luck! and God Bless!!
2006-08-09 20:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Nanner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In another year or so you could be over your obsession. You most likely come to your senses and move on. Besides, if you parents find out and don't like him they could have him sent to the big house for a couple of years.
2006-08-09 20:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I can actually say I stopped reading right after the words "I love Jeff"--I could just tell that the rest of it would be boring and tedious.
2006-08-09 20:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
infatuation , not love . Go get a vibrator , that will help with the horny part. Stay away from him and look for someone else. He is too old for you anyways.
2006-08-09 20:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have finally found someone who is just like me.Dont worry much it just means you have a goal in life and you want to know what awaits you. Just be careful not to go to far down the edge.
2006-08-09 20:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by Pre lives on 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You are definitely obsessed. And too young, you need to calm down.
2006-08-09 20:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by kako 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are obsessed. You are way too young to understand what love really is. Don't be in such a rush, you will regret it.
2006-08-09 20:20:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋