I am ashamed of being Muslim what faith should i follow?

Question

Everywhere i go ppl stare at me i no longer have white friends because of London Bombings I feel alone my faith which was so strong no longer comforts me I can not talk to my Father anymore my life is bad.

Answer 1

Faith is the problem. Any faith. Use your sense of rational intelligence and reason to the only logical result. Reject religion entirely. Be proud of your intelligence. Be an Atheist.

Answer 2

Why are you ashamed of being Muslim?? why do you let other people decide what religion you will be?? it seems to me you have lost faith..what has happened in your life?? i have chosen to become Muslim and i don't care what others think about it..if you are not my friend because of it--then you never were really then...your friends should support you and all decisions you make..I really wish you would not give up on Islam so easily.... there will always be someone somewhere that does not like you for some reason...i don't let any of that bother me..I know what i want in my heart and that is my goal...that is what makes me happy...not what some other person will think about the clothes i am wearing or what faith i am...You need to look in your heart and mind and decide what it is that you want.....what makes You happy....then let nothing stop you in your goal...i wish you all the best in your search..yes and i really hope you chose to stay Muslim..but if not--i understand.. by the way..i am a good listener...if you need one..take care

Answer 3

part of being a Christian , is being able to stick to your belief no matter what terrible thing comes your way.
if you believed so strongly in your religion, you should try again. it is not your belief that caused the bombing, and anyone ignorant enough to think all Muslims are in the same mind ,is not worth worrying over. it does not mean that because Catholic priests have been found to be molesters, that all of them are, or that every good catholic subject is now also considered paedophile.

i am agnostic at the moment, as i blindly believed in the christian faith that i was brought up with, but then started to question it. i read somewhere not to feel bad about this because when and if i do believe again it will be a very strong and sure belief. there are many religions, and how do we decide which one is correct , since all the various followers have their strong faith and "evidence'. good luck. maybe speak to other people who feel the same as you. and i am sorry that you have gotten to this stage.

Answer 4

I would say that your issue is not with the great and merciful Allah but rather with how Islam is percieved by those unfamiliar with it.
Personally I think Islam is a wonderful faith and is feared out of ignorance. As an ordained Christian Minister I can see that there are many great achievements that owe a lot to the Arab world and Islam. Also historically there have been many Muslims I have a great personal respect for such as al-Malik al-Nāsir Salāh al-Dīn Yūsuf ibn Ayyūb (Saladin) whose conduct during the Crusades was an example of wisdom and mercy that I find magnificent.

If you are certain Islam is not for you then you will always be welcome as a Christian, but think about the faith you will be abandoning before you choose a new one.
Another good religion to choose would be Zoroastrianism which is a very ancient and insightful faith. Sikhism is another good faith and has several historical links to Islam.

I would follow the calling of your heart on this matter and not rush an important decision like this.

Answer 5

First of all you should never be ashamed of being who or what you are. I'm a Christian i do have Muslim friends and learn a lot from them. I don't think that you should follow up on another religion. The question is what is it that you are so ashamed of. Oh whats happening in the world today. I'm a black woman and we see bad things all the time. Anyway most of the people that's teaching GOD'S word don't believe in it and don't follow the rules their self but tell others that how it is .

If you have friends of different beliefs go to their church or place they pray and see if you like it.

If you really want to change go and visit other religions and make a decision on what one fits you best and make up happy. Good luck on deciding.

Answer 6

Why are you ashamed? I don't understand. Faith comes from the heart...only you can decide where it belongs. It can be independent from an organized creed or doctrine, or you can explore other possibilities for yourself through books and talking to people from all cultures and belief systems. No one person has all the answers...but you will know what is right for you when you hear it. We are here for different reasons...and it will take many voices to form one truth...so do not limit your thinking and learn all you can. Read books on spirituality...a more universal belief system not bogged down in religious dogma. What works for one, may not work for another...but never be ashamed of that which you were born into...as it is a part of you, too. You are feeling bad about something you did not do...and this does not belong to you.

Answer 7

If you're seriously ashamed of being Muslim, then I don't think you should consider Christianity in it's many forms either, they came from the same branch and what you don't like in Islam, you will find the same in Christianity, regardless of what Christian say, trust I'm Christian, I'm just more open minded than most. Buddhism is a possiblity, since it advocates peace but it's a difficult religion to adhere to as it goes against most of modern lifestyle. In all seriousness, I recommend you relook your original faith and learn more about it. Don't look at the bad but view the original message that it's truly meant to convey. Live your life that way and it doesn't matter if you call yourself a Muslim, a Chirstian, or a Buddhist.

Answer 8

Why are you ashamed? The Muslim faith is perfectly valid as one of the major religions. If you are feeling pressure because of recent world events, all the more reason to demonstrate that YOU can rise above the influences of the few, and show the rest of the world that Muslims are not all gun wielding maniacs with a death wish!

Perhaps if this still does not feel the right thing for you, then you should become Wicca. (I have known a couple of Muslims who felt that this was the religion for them)

Try www.witchcraft.org for lots of useful and interesting information about this religion in the UK.

Answer 9

WHY are you ashamed of being Muslim?
Do you not believe in it? Or are you ashamed
for cultural or political reasons?
If you still believe, but are ashamed of what some
other Muslims do, or are ashamed of stereotypes,
or any other such thing, then work on fixing
what you're ashamed of, rather than running away.
If you truly are seeking a different faith, because
Islam does not make sense to you, then seek.
Asking other folks means that the vast majority
of them are interested in converting you to their
faith, not genuinely interested in helping you make
sense of life (and death).
Also remember that there are different denominations
and interpretations of every faith, so if only a piece or
two of your faith don't make sense to you, seek to
learn more about other interpretations and denominations.

My Mother taught me that Religion is like Cereal...
Some folks like puffed wheat, some like corn flakes,
some like lucky charms. What variety you choose
is not really important as long as you like it and it
nurtures you.

Seek what nurtures your spirit.
~ Lady Ament

Answer 10

Brother, whatever trials your going through for being Muslims, thousands of other Muslims are going through too. You're not a lone. I am a Muslim women who covers, before and after 9/11. Everytime I step out of my house I know I could be a target of discrimination and abuse. That just increases my determination to be who I am in a country (USA) that allows me too.

During the days of slavery, if blacks could peel their skin off, they'd probably would to stop the suffering against their people, but that's not the case. They had to fight until they won their rights and America is a better place because their struggle. Now it's a diversal country.

My point you can't give in to those who abuse you. It's not you who has to change, it's them. If you give up your religion today, what are you going to give up tomarrow?? .. as there are those who will always find fault in people.

As for your white friends... what kind of friends would hold their friend guilty for crime they didn't commit! ... don't sound like true friendship to me. Do you have a problem with having friends of different skin colors? ... Your aim should be loyalty, getting along, and honesty in friendships not skin colors.

Why don't you befriend Muslims your age?.. I'm sure many are struggling the same way you are. In a way you'll have a shoulder to lean on and could find common interests.

If it's a matter of belief, I suggest you strengthen your knowledge of your faith (Islam) as a true believer wouldn't care if the whole world is against them, as pleasing Allah (swt) is the ultimate and most worthy prize.

As a Muslim there is nothing I feel of ashamed nor should you. It's about time people stopped collective punishment and it takes a lot of voices to change this. Be a voice of reason to those who treat you unfairly. I pray you find ease, faith, and strength to overcome these trialing times. May Allah (swt) be with you and all Muslims who suffer these hardships. Remember nothing goes without reward,Allah (swt) rewards us for our patience and perseverance.

peace unto you

Answer 11

Re look into your faith first before you make any drastic changes. There is nothing to be ashamed of for being Muslim, it should be a thing of pride. The problem is the ignorance of people. If, after you have thought it over, you do want to change, go ahead and do so, do what makes your heart happy.