The women I have been with all seem to have the same reaction after sleeping with them a couple of times. Those dreaded words come up"I Love You". This happens even after explaining that I am not going to jump in bed and fall in Love in a heart beat. Can women just have sex without all the emotional "LOVE" attachment?
2006-08-09 12:20:38 · 25 answers · asked by trvlnspark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry! As long as women bleed once a month no can do. Women are emotional creatures, even when we say that it's only sex at some point we get emotional. What men need to do is stop looking at women as sex objects and love them for who they are. If you need to have sex buy a tape or play with your self but dont use a women for sex and expect her not to get emotional at some point . One of these women is going to make you pay for all the times that you use women for sex. Remember the movie The Burning Bed will it stem from using women as sex objects.
Watch your back, cause sooner or later one of us will get you for using us as sex objects.
2006-08-09 12:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its just me. But I don't think many women could just have sex like that. I mean I know there are a few out there, that say oh yea sure I can be just like a guy and have meaningless sex. But its not true I don't believe, because for women everything has to have some meaningful value to it. Especially with sex, because so many feelings go into it, the caring, the passion and other things like that. Pretty much all the emotion of it. So women can't help themselves from feeling something rather its as simple as I love you, or as deep as this guy will be the father of my kids.
2006-08-09 12:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer for everyone but I myself only have sex with people I love. That's why I wait until I know that the guy feels the same way and then comes the sex. Good relationships rarely ever work out if it started just about sex. If I want to be friends with a guy I know that having sex with him is the fastest way to mess it up. Some girls treat sex as a recreational sport and that's their choice, but I don't like playing with my feelings like that. I'm sure these girls are probably feeling pretty bad right now because you can't say I Love You back. It's not your fault, it's theirs for playing with fire in the first place. They knew where you stood and still took the jump.
2006-08-09 12:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any person who says "I love you" just because they had sex with somebody a few times has a screw loose up there.
Falling in love is more than getting in the sack. Healthy love can only grow after you know the person for months at many levels, not just the intimate one.
Anything else is just desperation + horniness.
One thing though, maybe you are sleeping with these women but by design or mistake, you are leading them into believing what you are having with them is more than sex... and that's wrong.
2006-08-09 12:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by elnyka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women can but women equate sex to love. I used to have a 3 time rule. After having sex 3 times I would stop so that I didn't fall in love. You need to quit having sex with emotionally needy women.
2006-08-09 12:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women are seeking love. They may not be getting the attention they crave. This sometimes happens while at home with their parents, in an unhappy marriage, in an abusefull situation. Just think about it whether male or female don't we all want to feel loved and important to someone? Many are being raised by single parents(this is not a put-down) and need someones attention. Remember they are giving you the most important GIFT that anyone has to give. Once it has been given to you and you don't act like it is a big deal and don't want a committment.....it's like kicking her to the curb.
2006-08-09 13:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by USAloyal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are picking all the women that are like this... Sounds like you have a pattern of finding women that care about you enough to sleep with you and then they love you. Because you are choosing women that really care about you then maybe you should make the decision NOT to sleep with them until you care about them just as much. Afterall sex shouldn't be a WHAM BAM THANK YOU MAM that it really is something more special then that. If you want to have sex with women and them not be in "LOVE" then you need to be more cautious in who you are choosing for your "SEX PARTNER"... Obviously these women are already showing signs of attachment because you are already telling them that you just want to have sex with them. Basically, you are saying you want someone that you can just have sex with and have no attachments to! Well let me know when you find someone worth having sex with that doesn't want to be attached and I will say I am worth better then that!!!!
2006-08-09 12:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by lovelyandcarefree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hookers can. I don't understand why men go thought out life fu cking women over just so they can have sex.When a woman is giving you her body on a constant bases women naturally start to get feeling. I mean sex is something that is suppose to be shared between two people who care for one another.Now i know in to days world it's not always like that, but their are alto of women looking for love and a partner to share their life with if your not looking for that then just get a hooker pay your way and then you don't have to worry about it
2006-08-09 12:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I know I'm a girl and I am supposed to say you have to love someone to sleep with them but sometimes i think the i love you comes out as a habit rather than a feeling..or it makes them feel better for sleeping with a guy they don't really love
2006-08-09 12:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope sex is something you do out of love. making love is the one you do when you are in love. I'm a woman and there is a big difference. You must be sleeping with some young girls that don't know any different
2006-08-09 12:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋