lately my boyfriend would rather be on myspace or doing the opposite thing then me does he still love me or is he seeing some one else? what do I do to get his attention back?
2006-08-09 12:18:48 · 23 answers · asked by tallyh05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave his sorry *** and find someone worthy of your attentions. Your bf doesn't care anything for you.
2006-08-09 12:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question you just don't do anything to get his attention if he wanna play games like that you play to but harder as far as the cheating thing he might just feel like he needs some space from you he may feel as though you was smothering him or something yall cant be together all the time i think you should have a girls night out to take your mind off of him by the looks of things you and your man my have been spending to much time together and left your friends in the dark so bring your friend in the light and go have fun i also wanna say sit down and have a talk with your man and tell him that you feel neglected and try to work something out
2006-08-09 12:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by brownskindime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If he's always on the computer or doing other things and you havent gone out together alone in months, then I think its time for him to go. If he can't prioritize, then you shouldn't have to wait around for him. But, if he's able to do all that and still go out with you often (once a week, once every 2 weeks...at all), then tell him that you feel like he's too wrapped up in his own world. Tell him that you want to see him more often, that you want to be reassured of your relationship. If he wants to spend his entire life in front of the computer screen, thats fine. But if he really loves you and he wants to stay with you, you have to let him know that he needs to do just that: stay with you.
2006-08-09 12:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by dreamgal 8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you might be smothering the dude. I myself am always asking for 'alone' time when I am in a relationship. (And I'm a girl) You should definately try leaving him alone when it seems like he doesn't want to give you attention, if that doesn't work then he probably isn't interested if he'd rather space bang then chill out with you.
2006-08-09 12:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he loves anything except spending time in front of this lame thing we call a computer. Who cares if he's seeing anyone else. If he doesn't have the decency to break it off, he's not worth it anyway. How do you get his attention? Lose him.
2006-08-09 12:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how busy he is he could make time if he really wanted to. He may be seeing someone else but that is perfectly fine as long as you arnt exclusive. If you know one of his friends talk to him about something dirty and I guarentee you will get your bf attention.
2006-08-09 12:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by purplewingduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well myabe if it was work to help yous or him to get a better life but if he just playing around i think hes just seeing how far you persue him, id give him the cold shoulder for a few days. see if he comes to you either way u should be a more important priority in his life
2006-08-09 12:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by sugarpantsangel21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he's just too busy...what u gotta do is go over 2 his place and wear like nothing when he's doing something and tell him to start comin at u...if he cant resist then he loves u...if he says no then leave the relationship cuz he dont love u no more
2006-08-09 12:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by sweetiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't judge him all like that.. maybe the guy just wanna spend quality time alone for a short time... if you really love each other you should forgive each others likes... just observe first...
if he's acting all weird try to talk to him 1 on 1..
2006-08-09 12:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by guitarista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first u should find out his password and then go read his messages(trust me it works)and then if theres any other girls then read the messages!!also do not forget to look in his trash its on the side its his deleted messages.o and if he acts like he loves u then he probably does...and c mon every guy has lots of time on his hands
2006-08-09 12:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Priscilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think u should let him know how u feel and after u explain to him leave him alone eventually he'll come back make him beg!!!1
2006-08-09 12:26:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋