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Alright Ive dated this girl for 4 years. We broke up 9 months ago and until last month we were best friends. I read some bad dating advice that told me to stop talking to her if I ever wanted to have a chance with her again. So I did that and now suddenly as I did that she suddenly asks out a new boyfriend..Now Im paranoided that she is going to get around and I tried to get in contact with her but she sees that as harrasement now, so I compelety stopped communication with her. This isnt the first time she has told me to stop talking to her and we still went out later. But Now im leaving to college and I have chances with others. Does anyone have any advice on how to get her back and if you think it is not possible then do you think it is fair to date someone else even though you like someone else?

2006-08-09 12:12:38 · 5 answers · asked by purplewingduck 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Dude, if a woman asks you to stop talking to her, then do so. Don't make her tell you twice.

Let go, move on. Yes, you like her and stuff. But the reason you are paranoid is that somebody else is moving into your territory. It has nothing to do with how you feel for her.

It's just your ego, really. Been there, done that, moved on.

You are going to college, new girls... as bad as it sounds, just think about the new opportunities to get laid. That will make her forget her in not time.

Just make sure you don't the same mistake again, please?

So, should you try to have her back? No. Don't recycle relatioships.

Should you date other people even if you like someone else? Yeah, just don't date seriously... AND DON'T LEAD OTHERS INTO BELIEVING YOU ARE DATING SERIOUSLY.

After a few romps in the sack and a few dates, she will be a what-her-name ghost from your past. She will be, and you will be fine.

Maybe you will develop more confidence and experience with women in general. Then you will be ready to date seriously.

2006-08-09 12:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by elnyka 2 · 1 0

well, college is a wonderful journey.... honestly sweetie, let it be...she has moved on and that is okay. Trust me, you will have your hands full with college...classes, homework, roommates....hot chicks....<-------- oh yeah, there will be new girls at college, and parties...go have fun, live it up...you are only young once.
Besides, there is always a chance later on, after no communication, that when you come back to town over break...that you'll bump into her again...and if the sparks are still there, re-evaluate. You could be surprised that you have gotten over her...... have fun.

2006-08-09 19:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by shasta 5 · 1 0

...maybe you'll find someone better who you might fall in love with. So let her go for now. We meet people for a lot of reasons and certainly they move out of our lives for a reason. Who knows if one day when you'll see her again and you still love her, things might possibly work out for the two of you.

2006-08-09 19:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

If she loved you she would still be with you. Move on there is someone else out there for you.

2006-08-09 19:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 1 0

send her a letter with oyur true feelings and your new address , put the option in her hands , if she calls or writes you the man if not your in cllege enjoy the single life. goodluck

2006-08-09 19:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by sonny 3 · 1 0

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