I've been dating this guy for about 2 months I my parents think we're just friends and the other day he asked me to be his girl friend, what should I do. Keep it a secret, tell my parents or just say no to the guy?
2006-08-09 12:03:00 · 24 answers · asked by WENDI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your parents. if you keep it a secret then its gonna be hard on you. and if you really like the guy and tell him no you AND him will be crushed
2006-08-09 12:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Eleanor. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? But never lie to your parents about a relationship. It only makes things stressful, and in the long run , it will get old. So tell your parents. But if your parents dont like the fact of you having a boyfriend, then explain to them. And if they still disagree, you will have to be a sneak with it!!!!!!!!!!LOL
2006-08-09 19:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by army_guysturnmeon_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell your parents.
Though you may not agree with their opinion on the matter, it is one to consider.
Besides, sneaking around is not good for a healthy relationship.
You want to be proud of your love, do you not?
The first step in the right direction would be to tell your parents.
If they are hesitant, explain to them your thoughts and feelings on the matter as calmly and openly as possible.
This is an adult matter, so you need to behave like one, remember.
If you are prohibited from going out with him, tell the guy you would just like to be friends.
That is the most rational and respectable choice, and neither of you lose anything.
If anything, your friendship will grow stronger and stronger.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it didn't.
Take care!
2006-08-09 19:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something tells me your not telling all of us the whole story. . .If you are allowed to date then yea tell them. If not then tell him no. You shouldn't sneak around with this guy. . .parents always find out. What is it about this guy that they don't like? Good Luck
2006-08-09 19:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what do you want to do? if you wanna be his girl, then say yes. don't see why your parents should be an issue unless they're against you having a bf. when the time is right, you'll eventually tell your parents you've upgraded to the next leve :)
2006-08-09 19:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents that the two of you would like to be bf/gf and see how they handle things. If they like the guy everything should go smoothly
2006-08-09 19:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by j_danielgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my parents. I don't really see this as a problem. If they objected to you being bothered with him they would say so trust me. Tell him you will be his girl if that is what you want. Good luck.
2006-08-09 19:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your parents like him what would be the problem just tell them that he asked you to be his girlfriend.
2006-08-09 19:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kal-el 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it a secret do ur parents have 2 be involved in ur private and personal life
2006-08-09 19:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a secret, if you can. My last two ex-boyfriends were non-existant to my parents.
2006-08-09 19:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by IncoherencyIsFutile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋