So i'm 3 months pregnant living at my parents with my almost 2 year old son. My parents said they are helping me out by letting us stay there and if i get pregnant again i'm out... I'm in the process of looking for a place with my boyfriend. How do i tell them, do i wait untill i move????
2006-08-09 11:59:50 · 15 answers · asked by ssssss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have a good job, just saving $$$ and i'm 26, own car pay for all of me and my sons stuff give them $$$ to. Just was going through a divorse so had to move with them.
2006-08-09 12:16:25 · update #1
Make sure they are in a good mood and then tell them. They may have said that if you get pregnant again they will kick you out to scare you. I would tell them before making plans to move in with your boyfriend. You should consider getting a job and writing down a plan of how you are going to care for your children, this might make it a little easier for them to swallow.
2006-08-09 12:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know that you are in the process of looking for a new place to live and then tell that you are pregnant. It should ease the blow a little. I wish you luck and happiness.
Besides if you live with them and you share a bathroom with them then the chances are that they already know because of the lack of a monthly flow.
2006-08-09 19:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by katie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents that you are pregnant and that you understand the decision they implemented if you got pregnant again. Take on the responsibility and let them know that you are abiding their decision They will give you much more respect for standing your ground for your own life as well as theirs. Who knows by being up front with them may trigger something else. You need to step forward and go forth for yourself and your own family. You are forming a family unit of your own, along with that comes your own responsibility's.
2006-08-09 19:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by roseygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait till you move out. That way you have a place to go when you tell them. It is your life and as long as you were paying your own way and not using them then you will feel good about it all. Good luck.
2006-08-09 19:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 3 months pregnant, your belly will be telling on you soon enough. tell your parents the truth and let them know your looking for a new place to live. this way they won't feel like your taking advantage of them.
2006-08-09 19:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy.. Give them the benefit of the doubt.
They may be disappointed, however I don't think they will put you
and your almost 2 year old son out in the street.
2006-08-09 19:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Allwomanhere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how old r u? if your old enough 2 be outta the house then they shouldn't care if your pregnant. But u should tell them anyways before they notice u and u never told them, cuz then they'll really flip out
2006-08-09 19:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me, exactly! I suggest you get out from under their roof asap. My mom meant business, she still has no interest in my second child. Get out there and prove to them that you are capable of being an independent mother, with or without your boyfriend! If they see that you are willing to be responsible, perhaps you will have them back in your corner. Good luck
2006-08-09 19:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by jacinda772002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of birth control. But its to late for that. I would just set down with whomever you can talk to the best and tell them and let them tell the other one.
2006-08-09 19:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by pmdan00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you do dont tell them in the car they might crash. Tell them you think your pregnant so they take you to the doctor so the dctor will be the one saying your pregnant!
2006-08-09 19:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by WENDI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋