I met this wonderful guy, through a friend of my friend's, and he's leaving for a mission. Should I wait four years until I can actually date him or should I move on?
2006-08-09 11:59:21 · 8 answers · asked by larapookiebear18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you can make a commitment to him that you will stay in contact and when he comes back if you still feel the same way then you will be together exclusively, but still date other people. And stay honest with each other about the other relationships
2006-08-09 12:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about him? Strongly enough that you could faithfully be with him in this long distance relationship for four years and go through the worry of him being on a mission or not? You must decide because if you don't you'll only be chetaing yourself.
2006-08-09 19:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you sat down and asked him his feelings? It would seem that maybe if feels the same and you believe he could be Mr. Right then you should wait, then again you may want to see where it goes, or maybe you could both "casually" date other people and resume when he returns, just be honest with other people so that their feelings aren't played with.
2006-08-09 19:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Angel B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is up to you. You have to ask yourself this question, "Am I willing to put my life on hold and wait for this guy or do I want to see what's out there?" Most importantly follow your heart!
2006-08-09 19:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by collegebound1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on u could have the chance to meet some one even better than u could imagine
2006-08-09 19:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by dynomite_kid_21605 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl no. 4 years is a very long time to wait.besides what if you meet your "soulmate" during that time.your gonna have to turn him down.
2006-08-09 19:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by 0000000000000000000000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really really love him then you can wait but if you only just like him then you should on.
2006-08-09 19:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kal-el 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, see him in four yrs and see where each one of u is at!!
2006-08-09 19:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by tinatana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋