Honestly? Yes there is plenty of reason to be concerned, alot of people who take a break like that and re meet after a couple years find that they can in fact forgive them and that the love is still there. But you should NEVER accuse, just watch for signs and go from there.
2006-08-09 12:02:38
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answered by Angel B 3
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Depends on how your boyfriends feels about his ex now. A lot of ex's become friends years after they broke up. They are able to, once time has pasted....and they have moved on. They my always care for each other...so why not let them be friends? Just because they are friend doesn't mean they want each other back! Just make sure they are talking just as friends!!! If he is in IL with you....whats the harm? I would go with him, if he takes any trips to NC though!
2006-08-09 19:04:40
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answered by MandyHawk 3
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yes, he might think he still have a chance with her that's why they are talking now. how much do they talk? once a day, i would be concern. once a month, no. He should respect your relationship with him and know that he should spend time with you than spend time talking over the phone with her. Do not accuse him of anything because they will get defensive and you will endup looking like a jealous gf. Instead talk to him and slowly get answer from him on what he expect out of this "friendship" and you will know what to do then.
2006-08-09 19:08:19
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answered by Anonymous
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FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS GIRL! If they're going to that much effort to talk to each other there's something up. Your problem is how do you call him on it without seeming like the jealous girlfriend? Well, there's a radio station I listen to (95.5 out of Detroit) in the mornings and they have this trick they play on men/women who's spouses suspect they're cheating - it's called, "War of the Roses". The station calls up the "suspect" and offers a free dozen roses to be sent to anyone of their choice just for taking part in their survey. Then, if the suspect doesn't send them to their boyfriend or girlfriend it's WAR OF THE ROSES! You could do the same thing. Ask one of your friends to help you out.
2006-08-09 19:12:11
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answered by JKM1971 2
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I can see you being a bit concerned, but unless he starts taking trips to NC often, I wouldn't worry about it to much.
Its a long way from here to Chicago, don't think they could manage much damage.
2006-08-09 19:01:38
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answered by tm_tech32 4
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MMM this is a nasty one isn't it . Is it you that is insecure and doubting him or is it him that might not have strong enough feelings for you, to stay loyal. Well Mimi I think its time to sit down with your guy and tell him that you are feeling a little unsure about his old flame and that he needs to reassure you that you are the love in his life. Unless he is a heartless fool he will see that this relationship with his old flame is a thorn in your budding future together .
2006-08-09 19:16:42
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answered by slick 4
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I would be worried if I were you. It sounds as though they still have feelings for each other. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and get him to be honest with you. He needs to let you know how he feels about this girl. Talk to him so you guys can both get your cards out on the table.
2006-08-09 19:04:26
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answered by strawberries 5
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I don't think you really should be concerned and don't play the jealous the girlfriend cause that might drive your bf off.
But, don't let him off too much! I mean, you should probably befriend her too, I mean it wouldn't hurt, you know wat i mean? it would probably help u get some inside stuff on ur bf.
and i doubt ur bf is gonna forget she cheated on him. so keep that in mind.
anyway, wish u the best of luck in watever ur choice is.
2006-08-09 19:01:16
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answered by tinatana 2
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Well, she does live in a different state. I would ask him ...look do I have anything to worry about? And if I ever do will you talk to me about it?
Them being friends in two differnt states , you shouldn't worry too much.
2006-08-09 19:04:45
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answered by jessdjnick 4
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you should only be worried if he starts spending a little to much time getting reaquanted with an old "friend". otherwise i would not worry about it.
2006-08-09 19:00:46
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answered by confusedude529 2
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