My guy doesn't like being close after sex. is it normal?
2006-08-09 11:54:20 · 10 answers · asked by Beverly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, I am a very sexual man, I enjoy sex at least 2 times a day. Sometimes I really like to be close to the girl that I am with after sex, sometimes I want to go to the other room, get some water and watch TV.
The psychology behind it is this. He is either
1. Not satisfied with something about the encounter. EX: maybe it was not freaky enough or to freaky. Even if he came he still might have hidden issues.
or
2. He might have little respect for you.
3. Thinking of someone else and feels guilty. ( That happened to me )
4. OHH this happens sometimes to men. He actually might be insecure about the performance. Maybe he came to fast and feels embarrassed, causing him to shy away from the situation.
5. If you did not ***, or atleast did not act like you did, he feels less of a man and wants to shy away.
2006-08-09 12:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jarrett 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys usually dont really like being that close after sex because he just spent all of that intimate time with her for an hour or so. The thing is though if you do he should respect that you do and do it for you and man up and not complain.
2006-08-09 19:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Surfer J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men really dont like to be close right after sex but that is kinda insensitive you know u just gave him all of you and us as women really like to be held after trust me i know but most men are tired after so some men try to go do something to be active to keep themselves awake and other men will just lay there and hold you close just to make sure that you are feeling as pleased as they feel at that moment.
2006-08-09 19:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being close to my gal, after sex, it adds a lot to the relationship. Besides feeling good, makes you feel much closer .
2006-08-09 19:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't like it because they are hot after exerting so much energy. I wouldn't take it personal.
2006-08-09 19:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is screwed up ,I don't mind and usually enjoy being close afterwords.
2006-08-09 19:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys do n some don't
2006-08-09 18:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by naughty_5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty much....just mak sure you dont let get out bed...lol
2006-08-09 19:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by pinkpanther_tat13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE IT
2006-08-09 19:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by russellmcmillen1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if im still horny
2006-08-09 18:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋