If you have a miscarriage or not able to conceive is that God telling you "you are not ready for this". Some people seem to think so.
2006-08-09 11:36:39 · 22 answers · asked by Blah Blah Blah 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God does not punish. This is a medical problem not a religious problem. People who express the idea that a miscarriage is God's way of telling you are not ready for this are being hurtful not helpful. Ignore them and continue trying to conceive. If God said go forth and multiply why would a miscarriage be a punishment from God?
2006-08-09 12:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
God makes things happen for a reason. Sometimes we can find the reason in it, sometimes we cannot. Perhaps he was sparing the child, not the parent, from a life of problems (ill health, disability, suffering).
When I miscarried in May, a close friend and devoutely religious friend said to me "Maybe the love between you two was so good and pure, that the child you created was not meant to suffer through the sins we do here on earth."
2006-08-09 11:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Barney's Betty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think God is punishing you. Ether he has something for you to do for him or he my want you to adopt God sometimes wants people who can't have a child because you can make life better for a child that doesn't have one. And never say that you can't afford it God will take care of the big part's of it. If you feel lead to adopt and you feel God is leading you there then don't wait just do.
2006-08-09 11:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Somone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christians are strange. By demanding the death penalty, they don't trust 'God' to punish a murderer, but they think if a woman loses a child, it's the work of 'God'. Regardless what Christians think, 'God' doesn't punish anyone. We ourselves choose our own realities, according to our individual needs and desires. And there are no punishments -- there are only opportunities to learn and grow in wisdom.
2006-08-09 11:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetchild Danielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could be true, but I don't know for sure.
I am not able to have kids, I'm 19, married, and in school.
Maybe that's the reason I can't have kids.
BUT my doctor says there may be hope with furter treatment. Maybe by then I will be really ready.
SOOO I kind of believe it could be a reason beyond medician.
2006-08-09 11:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by *♥Mrs. Morrow♥* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather mild punishment from a god who sent his only son to die an excruciating death on the cross with thousands of other Jews.
2006-08-09 11:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Hatikvah 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm by far no religious person.
But I can tell you think "spiritually." So take it as a hint that your "god" might want you to adopt a child without a home.
2006-08-09 11:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it's not. God made everyone a certain way for a certain reason. If someone can't have a child they might be meant to adopt or something.
2006-08-09 11:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in deities so no. I am one of those people.. I cannot conceive and no medical technology like IVF could change that. For me it is genetic nothing else.
2006-08-09 11:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by genaddt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's an unfortunate glitch in our frail biology, not a punishment from God. Don't listen to people who say such nonsense.
2006-08-09 11:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by Catalina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋