How late into my girlfriends pregnancy can she get an abortion, to be ok with the bible and god?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

It will never be okay. If you are a Christian (as it sounds by your reference to God and the Bible), then you have already made a couple mistakes:
1. Sexual immorality (sexual relations out of marriage)
2. Contemplating murder
Thankfully, God forgives, but His grace is not to be abused.

Consider the consequences of an action before you perform it. If you had abstained from having intimate relations with your gf, you would not be in this place right now having to make this tough decision. The truth is, you now must take responsibility for you mistake. Do not continue making poor decisions. Stand up and be a man. Don't let fear of what might happen cause you to end the life of a child. Think about what that child will grow up to be, the things he might accomplish, the joy that he will bring you. Don't end all this by making a weak, dastardly decision. Don't be like all the other millions of boyfriends who leave after something like this happens or encourage their girlfriends to make a decision that haunts them the rest of their life. Rise above the standard and be strong.

If you truly are a Christian, then abortion is murder. Life begins the instant that the egg is fertilized. Murder is the taking of life. The biological definition of life is "The property or quality that distinguishes living organisms from dead organisms and inanimate matter, manifested in functions such as metabolism, growth, reproduction, and response to stimuli or adaptation to the environment originating from within the organism" (American Heritage Dictionary. That embryo or fetus is alive. It is growing. Its cells are reproducing. It is alive. It is murder to take its life.

Don't do it. Be strong and allow God to help you through this time. Look at the end benefit instead of the present hardships.

Answer 3

Well, you are talking about God and the Bible. The Bible tells us before we were even in the womb he knew us. And not to murder. You sound like a Christian. That you are asking this question makes me believe that you question it. With that being said, I'd have to say you two have to decide that for yourself. There is also a big semblance of regret. Wondering what that child would look like, how old they would be....etc. This is guilt that never goes away for some mothers. Think about adoption what have you. Just be sure both of you are ready to go through the hurt of wondering. Not everyone has these feelings but it's not an easy thing to go through. Have you thought about adoption? My oldest bro is adopted. We love him and he will never be adopted in our eyes. However, that is for you and your girlfriend to decide. I hope whatever you decide will be the right thing in either way. Some mothers know even before they are pregnant they are. There is no question that it is a baby. That is not to say all mothers feel this way. I hope things work out for you two.

Answer 4

It will not be okay any time. Just deal with your responsibilities, and when that baby comes, you are going to be so happy you didn't go through with the abortion. God does not want you to kill your unborn child, that is a sin. Even though it is legal in some states. God is blessing you with a child, when there are many people that can't even have children. Truth be told, you are already in sin for having sex before marriage. If you don't want the baby give it to someone that will be able to. i hope this will help you. pray about it, God will lead you. he does not want you to kill the baby.

Answer 5

Abortion is never okay with God. God "hates...hands that shed innocent blood" (Proverbs 6:16-17). Every abortion kills an innocent unborn baby. At just three weeks after conception, your baby's heart is already beating.

For Biblical perspectives on abortion (written by Christians, NOT by the anti-Christian atheists who sometimes post here), see:

http://www.christiananswers.net/q-aig/aig-bibleandabortion.html
http://www.crusadeforlife.org/prolife_scriptures.htm
http://www.epm.org/articles/aborbibl.html

For more information on all aspects of abortion, see:

Photos of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and Facts About Your Baby's Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm

Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php

Support for Pregnant College and Career Women:
http://www.nurturingnetwork.org

You can do the right thing. You will never regret protecting your girlfriend and your baby from abortion. Both of them are depending on you.

Answer 6

According to the Talmud, the unformed fetus is "as if it were simply water" during the first 40 days. After that time it is considered a part of the mother's body.

Abortion is not specifically mentioned in the bible, but in Jewish tradition the child is not considered a full human being until it can survive without being inside the mother's body.

Answer 7

first of all saying "girlfriend" means you two arent married and God says to wait for sex till mariage

and secondly, it will never be okay!! abortion is WRONG no matter how old the baby is... the baby is a human being. And getting an abortion would be murder. PLEASE if you absolutly cannot take care of a child, dont strip the baby of having a life. Bring it to an adoption center.

Answer 8

Abortion is never right!! It doesn't matter when you do it it's still murder! Sleeping with someone before mirage is wrong too, but which would you rather be; an adulterer or a murder? If you don't want the kid, wait till after birth and put it up for adoption! Oh, and one more thing, pray that you will make the correct decisions!

Answer 9

To be ok with bible and god- never.
but if you are concerned with how long you can wait, states have different laws when a women is considered too far along- or the fetus too far developed to be aborted. although they do have some greusome ways to "abort" older babies. Its totally disgusting any anyone who is concerned with god and the bible on a serious level probably wouldnt even consider it.

Answer 10

Premarital sex is against the teachings of the bible and God.

Pregnancy outside of wedlock is against the teachings of the bible and God.

Abortion is against the teachings of the bible and God.

Dude, you really messed things up with God!

IT IS NEVER OK TO HAVE AN ELECTIVE ABORTION ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE!

Try adoption instead!

Answer 11

hey if she gets a second trimester abortion they rip the baby limb form limb while it is still alive. they pull it's arms and legs off first and then pick the baby apart form the bottom up. the baby usually doesn't die until about ten minutes into the procedure and that whole time it can feel everything. it's excruciating. but luckily most states do not allow second trimester abortions. so looks like your just gonna have to suck it up and be a dad buddy! oh by the way, rot in hell asshole.