90% of the time he gets off like a rabbit .what can i do to stop him or slow him down from being so fast. i mean its good while it lasts .
2006-08-09 11:33:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Over-stimulation. Try oral to completion or manual first then a while later do the actual act. The initial release should slow him down the second time around. He must be really attracted and excited by you. Savor and appreciate that!
Have fun and be safe!
2006-08-09 11:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 04:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep an ice cube in a cereal bowl next to the bed when you make love. Rub his private parts with the ice cube. That will slow him down and make it even more fun for BOTH of you.
The times when I myself have climaxed unusually quickly it was because the woman was just so beautiful and sexy that I was already hyper-excited just being near her.
If I were you I would be glad he finds you so desirable. Usually a man will never leave a woman that makes him feel like that. (I married the woman who made me feel that way.)
There are lots of ways to slow it down besides ice cubes. Just choosing a different time of day might work. Try keeping your clothes on longer or wear clothes that are difficult to get out of and make him undress you.
Heres a trick - You sense that he is getting too close to climaxing too quickly so you suddenly scream loudly "There's somebody in the room! Aiiieeee!" and point toward the window. That should disrupt things for a few moments.
You're actually a lucky woman, because the opposite experience is where the man loses his erection without climaxing - and that would be more disappointing for both of you I think.
Even if you do nothing, as time goes on he will take more time. So just be patient.
2006-08-09 11:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Doctor Hand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, for one thing...how often do you do it? If it's not very often, then that may be why. Also as others have said...he may be too horny and your sexiness and foreplay add to that. Maybe he's totally into you and can't help it...it should get better with time, but if not, he should see a doctor for premature ejaculation. Alcohol is a good remedy too
2006-08-09 11:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Doodaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just plan on two rounds. Just let the first round go fast and furious. Then after he recovers he should last a lot longer
2006-08-09 11:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe i agree with mister w, stop being so dam sexy. although it may also largely depend on his selfconfidense, his mood, how tired he is as well as time of the day. try to see a pattern in when hes better or worse. try to build up his confidense. were but men, not machines, we can not always preform well and we do not *** like lawnsprinklers believe it or not.
2006-08-09 11:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by SpankmasterFlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-09 11:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-08 21:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.
He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied
2017-02-17 19:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Antonio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to keep going the first time, stay hard and go for another round.
2006-08-09 12:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋