2006-08-09 11:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems that a lot of men would rather have sex with a Black woman than marry one. That's how my ex-boyfrined was. He didn't want to get serious and he said he wanted to be serious with Latina or a white girl so his family would approve
2006-08-09 11:37:51 · update #1
First and for most most black men that are about anything want the statics of being with a white women. Then the other 80 percent of black men have been locked up, are locked up or are into some type of illegal activity. Black women are too strong for black men. They want someone who will pay their bills, say when and where, let them drive their cars, and give them all their money. Black women aint havin it.
2006-08-09 11:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Paula H 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
62% of Black families (up from 23% in 1967) are now headed by single women. 67% of Black children (up from 17% in 1967) are born out of wedlock. The percentage of Black women who are married declined from 62% to 37% between 1950 and 1998. In the same period the percentage of never-married Black women doubled, from 21% to 41%. The pregnancy rate of young women 15-19 years old is twice that of whites. The rate of abortions is 50 per 1,000 pregnancies for Blacks, 17 per 1,000 for whites. Blacks account for 41% of all abortions which is the leading kill of African Americans.
The problem may be your looking for the perfect mate. Some women say they want a good man but always take the jerk that beats them down. I been looking at this and know the problem but don't know how to solve it.
But heres what TuPac said
"I wonder why we take from our women?
Why we rape our women? Do we hate our women?
I think it's time to kill for our women
Time to heal our women, be real to our women
And if we don't, we'll have a race of babies
That will hate the ladies, that make the babies"
You can't change no one and will be a fool to try. He don't care about you worring about those who don't care about you will drive you crazy.
2006-08-09 21:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by justme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we expect and want to much from our counterparts, and they lack or usually lack in the areas need most. You figure the majority of black men are in jail, homosexual, downlow, or just are not responsible, the rest are married and want you to be their side dish and well the goodones are taken by triflin women. So good luck luv.
2006-08-09 18:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by snowflake9540 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it can be difficult to find a good mate, but that's only because people aren't themselves these days.
If you know who you are, you need to stay true to yourself.
If you don't know who you are, you need to explore yourself and discover that.
However can you expect to find the perfect guy for you, if you aren't acting like you or you don't know who you are?
You will find the perfect guy for the person you are acting like.
Makes sense, no?
Don't adjust yourself to meet other peoples needs, find someone that meets yours.
Be yourself and somebody will come along that will love that self completely and that hopefully you can return the love to.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it didn't.
Take care!
2006-08-09 18:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are tons of great black guys...but you all stay in your race so much, and dont seem to respect the girl dating the guy and you fool around with the guy and backstab your sista. (just personal experience of what iv seen happen ALOT) i say date outside of your race alot more and you'l notice there are a plenty nice guys. The problem is you ALL want gangster black guys...and there arent enough that are nice and dont cheat for all of you.................my opinion
2006-08-09 18:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not hard for a black woman to find a good mate, it's hard for everybody not skin color to find a mate so keep trying one day you will.
2006-08-09 18:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient girl, you will find him or mabey he will find you, just don't be looking for him in all the wrong places. You know where I mean.
2006-08-09 18:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by ))-->rOXY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of good men, it just depends on what they want
2006-08-09 18:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not hard,... at least not for me
2006-08-09 18:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait!!!
2006-08-09 18:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋