I want to know what you guys think. should I fight back then leave him or what?
2006-08-09 11:30:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby girl don't make things worse. You really should tell the police, and have some where else to go. You deserve so much better. And don't ever let anyone else tell you other wise. He is a bum and should be punished for his actions.
2006-08-09 11:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Paula H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not fight back. You should report it. I was in a relationship like that once, only he told me he wasn't stupid enough to leave any marks. I didn't report anything. Was too scared. After 4 months of this crap, I took off. Best thing I ever did. He called, making threats on my life. That was enough to get me a restraining order, that he tried to fight. The courts will side with you though. Don't put up with him. You deserve better. No one deserves to have a partner that beats them. He's got issues and you can't do a thing about it. You need to protect yourself. You come before him. Don't reduce yourself to his level, because he will only get worse. If this is a long standing habit of his, you can count on the fact that he will one day go overboard. Please don't be there for that.
2006-08-09 12:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your training should have taught you to use fighting only when you cannot get away. If he beats you, he might have to say oops one day when he accidentally kills you.
Wait until he is not there or sleeping, and get the police there ASAP!
He is breaking the law and he is going to break something of yours. It probably should break your heart that a man you love and trust chooses to beat on you. One of the reasons he continues to hit you is because he has not realized any consequences from doing so.
Personally I believe he is a coward and has no moral integrity. Good luck spending the rest of your life with someone like that.
Don't look back.
2006-08-09 11:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Hak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave. If you fight him..and win... it's only going to damage his precious ego (thats why he beats you in the first place). The odds are that he will want to retaliate in more aggresive ways. No matter what your skills are... he can escalate the problem. I would leave...if he gives you grief after that... then defend yourself. Darlin' you sound like a class act for aknowledging that you need to leave him... just make sure you protect yourself the smart way.
2006-08-09 12:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've trained to fight you should know how useless it is...However no don't waste your energy....just leave. I can't believe that there are still "men" doing this crap...sorry dear. See Ya 'round
2006-08-09 11:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Joshua Pettigrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It will only make you as low as he is. Pack up your stuff and leave his ***! No explainations, nothing said, just leave. It is very obvious he does not love you. No one deserves to live life with physical and emotional pain caused by a loved one.
2006-08-09 11:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of that relationship RIGHT NOW!! Don't let anyone treat you like that. If he doesn't leave you alone, get a restraining order. This is serious.
2006-08-09 11:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by HygirL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!!!!!!!!!
Report him to the police
Men who do this are weak, insecure little boys. They would never fight another man especially one bigger than him. They would run home crying to mamma. Remember you cannot love someone if you don't like them.
2006-08-09 11:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by barbi101686 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're stupid for being with him in the first place, if you fight him back he could get more mad and beat you to death!
2006-08-09 11:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by nu comer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with someone who beats you, and why are you taking it? If I were you I'd beat the f*cking hell out of him, that's just me though.
2006-08-09 11:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by iluvU2&INXS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋