If your girlfriend (which you have been with for 2 years) tells you she doesn't love you anymore what do you do?
2006-08-09 11:23:03 · 41 answers · asked by em_85_1999 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to "move on"!When somebody tells you they don't love you"they don't love you"! From your stand point, I know after 2 yrs how you're feeling. She's not going to change her mind! Let her go, wish her the best , and get on with your life! Take a break cause your going to need some "time" to get over it! It's gonna "hurt" and you're going to be lonely! Don't sit and dwell on it . Find something to take up your time! I'd stay away from dating for awhile because you'll probably end up comparing every girl to her! Time is going to be your "healer" and nothing else ! Good Luck!
2006-08-09 11:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go through alot of suffering, unless you happen to feel the same way. Unfortunately it sounds like it's time to go your separate ways. It will be tough going for a while, but there will be someone else eventually. The future always looks bleak during those periods in our lives. It's always nice to get to the point (and believe me it's waiting for you), where you look back on this time and just say "oh well".
Look at the positive side of this: you could have found out this information after you two got married!
2006-08-09 11:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to hold on to her and rekindle the relationship then go back to the beginning and see what made you fall in love in the first place if you think you can be that person again then go for it and good luck
if not and you stay with her she is going to cheat on you or else it will just end badly you should make a clean break if you two arent able to fall for each other again
2006-08-09 11:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by comm2nd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its easier said than done, but there's nothing you can do about it. You cant make her have the same feelings she once had for you. Try to keep yourself occupied for a while so you can keep your mind off her. Take up something new, anything! You deserve someone to love you the same way you love them, all you have to do is wait to find that right person, it might take time but all you can really do is just wait for it to happen
2006-08-09 11:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. It will be less painful now than if you try to work it out. It will just be more painful at the end.
Then go find someone that you're happy with and will love you. Good luck.
2006-08-09 11:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on ...buddy! Ye, it does hurt but life does go on.
You can find another g/f. Get out..go have fun and do something fun!!!! Life is too short to take it to serious. There are plenty of ladies out there that are waiting on you. I believe there is a person out there for every person...take care and good luck.
Don't be down on urself.....laters
2006-08-09 11:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by itsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait to see if she comes back. If u can't get over her do something that u have always loved doing that cheers u up. If u 2 were truly in love she'll be back. Just wait and see.
2006-08-09 11:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by redneck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i have gone through the same exact **** as you and i know how it feels so ima give you advice that i thought i shoud've done
ask her what is wrong if she doesnt budge do more for her ask for a second chsnce and if ur too shy around her dont be a pussy!!! thats how i lost her! but hold her more talk to her call her just do more for her and be a boyfriend!!
pe@ce out man hit me up if this worked out for i wanna know what wouldve hapened if i did this
quicksilver4450@yahoo.com ....drr lol
2006-08-09 11:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe her. You can't make someone love you. It's painful, terribly painful but will get better with time. So step up, show some dignity and wish her well. There really is no other choice.
2006-08-09 11:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go after her and ask her what you can change to get her back, and that you really love her. Otherwise just go with the flow there's more fish in the sea.
2006-08-09 11:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋