he has a girl friend and he is a friend to me
2006-08-09 11:14:40 · 10 answers · asked by lily j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TELL HIM HOW U FEEL CAUSE HE MIGHT FEEL THE SAME WAY
2006-08-09 11:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I've learned something during my life. I learned that if you dont do something, you will later regret it. And if you dont do it you'll regret it anyways. Which would you rather choose? Tell him and let him know that you like him? Maybe he likes you to. You never know. You have to give it a try. Don't waste time and not tell him and later regret that you didnt do it.
And I've learned from my past. I use to have all these crushes that I would never tell the guy I liked. And I would always feel so sad and cry it all out at night. It's better if you tell that person other than keeping it to yourself. And I did just that. I told the guy I liked. He told me that he's been starting to like me to.
Wouldnt you rather know than not? He he says he doesnt like you then so what? There's millions of men out there. You'll find a different one and then you'll forget this guy. But still stay good friends. Right?
I think you should just tell him straight out.
2006-08-09 18:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by (<' . '<)MoOomOOoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't do it. What if you were someone's gf and his friend said "I love you" to him? How would you feel then? Find someone who is free and will be "completely yours". There are many single guys out there. I am sure if you take a look around you, you will realize I am telling you the truth. Instead of destroying s'one else's happiness and losing your friend, try to find your own happiness. Just Believe in it and I am sure you'll do fine.
2006-08-09 18:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by johny A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "love" someone who is already taken - then I would say you have some esteem issues.
So many people confuse love. Love is not the feeling that you get when you see someone - that is just chemicals reacting to your attraction. Love is the actions TWO people who are committed to each other take for each other. It is a verb, not a noun.
You are in lust - why don't you just screw him and get your Jerry Springer moment over with.
2006-08-09 18:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him. He may like you too - you never know. If he doesnt, at least you will know it and then get over it. It is better than to wait long and loose time that you could spend looking for someone new.
2006-08-09 18:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by escada.girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NONONONONO!!!!! That would ruin your friendship! Trust me!
Do-be his friend, improve your friendship, be there for him if he ever has any problems.
Don't-mess with his relationship or gf, if you do he'll only HATE you for it. Guys don't like (or love) girls who mess up there relationships. PLUS if you were his gf would you want some girl to ruin your relationship? I think not.
Wait it out (as a friend).
2006-08-09 18:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Move on and leave him alone. Maybe you will get your chance later, but fooling around in other people's relationship is bad karma.
2006-08-09 18:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what in the hell are you waiting for men love it when a woman takes what she wants yes tell him love isnt always love but is what one makes it to be
2006-08-09 18:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by ShadowKeeper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him maybe something comes out from that.
2006-08-09 18:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by la_salvadoreña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should if you are open to the truth about how he feels for you if he not interested.
2006-08-09 18:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by confront 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋