me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year we love eachother and we know we're gonna get married someday.his bestfriend just got with a new girl,so anytime we have little parties she's there,she's the biggest sluttiest flirt i have ever met,and i know its mean to say but if she were to die i would not miss her.anyways she flirts with all of my boyfriend friends even when she knows they are taken,when i'm in another room she tries to pull my boyfriend away and talk with him,i trust my boyfriend i know he would never hurt me,its her i cant trust,shes one of those people that touches ur arm when she talks to u,she does it to everyone but when i see her touch my man it kills me.shes not pretty at all,i know my boyfriend is more attracted to me,and everytime she around he pulls me near,i just wanna know how do i control my emotions,everytime i see her i wanna throw a hammer at her.i know i'm not the only girlfriend out there who goes through this
2006-08-09 11:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by starlight00603 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats how i am so your not the only one that feels this way hunny its something we got to go through and we just got to trust our boyfriends and my boyfriend does the same with a girl he sees he pulls me closer if he knows there a flirt but my boyfriend makes its obvious hes taken and so does yours so just trust your boyfriend and you will be fine and dont worry about that girl it sounds like he loves you and wont do anything with that girl just push her away when you see her flirting with your man but you cant take the jelousy out of you thats just in you because were all the same way when a girl is flirting with our man
2006-08-09 11:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that your bf wouldn't leave you for her, and thats great. You can't control what she does, you can't control what your bf's friends do, but you can control what YOU do. Have you talked to your bf's best friend about his gf? Does he know all this is going on? Until it hits him that his gf is up to no good, you might need to consider not going to any of the parties where you know she'll be (thats only if it bothers you that much.). That's all I can tell you, other than to stop worrying because you know your bf loves you and would never leave you. OH and please don't throw any hammers (you might miss and hit your bf and that wouldn't be good cause it sounds like he's quite a catch) =)
2006-08-09 18:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't bother with her. It's good that you trust your boyfriend, and you know he won't cheat on you with her. Your main concern isn't a concern at all, you should be happy about that. And it's obvious he's not even interested in her. You can't change her, and don't start a fight with her. You shouldn't be getting jealous; you're the one with the boyfriend. Just don't pay attention to her, it's not worth your time. If she talks to him a little, it's no big deal. You're really gonna turn him off if you come across as untrusting and overposessive.
2006-08-09 18:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. If he pulls you closer when shes around thats his way of showing her that hes taken. He doesn't want her to be touching him or trying to flirt with him so thats why he is trying to make you and his relationship visible. It's great that you trust your boyfriend the way you do. I wouldn't worry about her.. but if it gets worst then confront her.
2006-08-09 18:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by C-Baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just hang a picture of her on your wall and throw darts at it. That way you really can hit her with something but the only thing that is getting hurt is your wall.
No seriously just ignore her and dont invite her to any of your parties and if your bfs friend gets mad because you left her out then tell him what she does. He may get rid of her on his own.
2006-08-09 18:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by katie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its really good that you trust your bf. and that you shouldnt let that trust fade. you should either tell your bf that it kinda hurts seeing him get touched by another woman when he has his gf around or even if you're not around. maybe there's some way you both can avoid her. Just have to talk it over with your bf about this situation. Tell him its driving you crazy seeing him get touched by another woman. that it makes you reallly uncomfortable seeing it happen in front of you. or even not with you around.. just talk to your bf about it. maybe you two will come up with more ideas to this situation..
2006-08-09 19:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by (<' . '<)MoOomOOoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋