I am surrounded by smart, funny, intelligent, attractive young women all day. Many of them smile at me and talk to me, I know that much of it is simply flirting but sometimes it feels that it could be much more. I look really young for my age but I am extremely self-conscious about my age because I think some of these women are no more than early 20's. Do you think I should be worried about age difference or is it no big deal these days? It's not that women my are are no good enough, I'm just not meeting anyone at school that age. Also, the attraction I'm talking about is mostly physical. I think it really might be too much to expect a long term relationship or marriage with someone 20 years younger than me. What do you think?
2006-08-09 11:01:16 · 22 answers · asked by JimiJames 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since I've lost out on a 31 yr marriage to a female 22 yrs younger than him, it's OK to say that anythings possible. He went for physical too, but ended up living with her & suspose to be miserable behind his loss of his family. In your case it may be different, so you might take a chance. The younger females who are into older men mostly look at their stability and his being able to support them until they fulfill their wants. Take a chance, who knows.
2006-08-09 11:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much money do you make? LOL Kidding.
No. I'm 20 so I should know. Sorry but well you could get someone toooo young pragnet. That happened to a former friend of mine.
What's wrong with woman your own age? If you watch Somethings Gotta Give theres a similar question.
2006-08-09 11:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same happened to me when I was just about your age. The thing was, I realized that the woman was still too immature to really make a good partner. Her eyes roamed quite often, and I didn't need that. I still care deeply for the young woman, and wonder what became of her after she left to Iraq with her parents who worked in a chemical plant there. The beginning of the song that I wrote for my late wife, which I had on my myspace blog was actually written for her. She'll probably never get to hear the song I wrote for her, and that makes me a bit sad.
Cal-el
2006-08-09 11:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Prodigal Son 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on dude...I am 42. What do you have in common with a 20 year old? Tell her that if she just "wants to have a good time", you are cool with that. If she wants a relationship, I would run like hell. You can get someone who is just as hot around 30 that will be much more mature.
2006-08-09 11:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Greg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally i think girls are attracted to guys on their age range. But 39 is not so far.. Some men gets more gorgeous as they age =). And it depends on the women you try to attract.... Some women are mature for their age they want someone of their wavelength to get along with
2016-03-27 05:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as everyone is legal (be sure to ask) go ahead, but yes, a long term relationship is fairly far fetched since these women have so much to do before they're at your life level.
2006-08-09 11:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right, come on you are supposed to be going to college so use your brain!! What do you have in common with someone whose life experience amounts to high school? It would be nothing more than a guy saying yeah i still got it! Not saying you shouldn't, just be realistic about it.
2006-08-09 11:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, get the HELLLL off this computer and go talk to some young tender girls. Bro, it dosent matter how old you are. If she's willing...start dealing!!!!!! Do you realize how lucky you are. I'm surrounded by ugly bats all day and dudes!! Trust me, if I were you I'd be macking like...three the hard way!!! Look man, DAMM IT...if you don't do for yourself...........DAMM do it for the rest of us guys!!!!.................please bro peace bro.
2006-08-09 11:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not emotionally mature...but if you are asking this question, apparently you are not either...grow up! Sounds like you need to concentrate on your school work if you waited till 42 to go back to undergrad...I am not knocking it, but get a woman who is closer to you own emotional maturity.
2006-08-09 11:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can work if you both want it to work. Age matters but if there is love anything can happen.
2006-08-09 11:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋