Should I be with this guy?

Question

See I met this guy from another good friend of mine. Like since the beginning of this year. We started out as just friends. Then later we stopped talking to each other. And then I heard that I'm about to move to another state. That's when I talked to him again. We learned a lot more about each other. And then we started liking each other. More than just liking. But now that I'm about to move a year later, him and I really don't know if we should start dating or not. And then a couple days ago I asked him, "Would you say you like me or love me?" And he answered me just yesterday that he loves me and that he means it. He says I'm the one he wants to be with... I know he saying this now. But seriously we're still young and still in highschool and stuff. And once I move, it'll be a big change for the both of us. And I really dont know what to do. Should we go out? or just be really good friends?

Answer 1

If you really care about each other you'll stay in touch. If you feel the same way years to come you can reconnect at a better stage of life. In the mean time, experience life and be young.

Answer 2

Go out with him if you want to. But you shouldn't try to have an exclusive long distance relationship. Believe me when I tell you they usually don't work. Either both will cheat or one will remain faithfull and will THINK the other one is too.... only to learn years later that she could have been dating all along and maybe missed the right guy.

This is from experience. But when I was in highschool someone gave me this advice and I didn't listen...(thought our love would keep us together). I was wrong.

These years should be used to learn about what kind of person you want to spend life with, and you cannot do that if you are in an exclusive, long distance relationship. Long distance relationships aren't really TRUE relationships as far as learning how to participate in a give-and-take relationship and that is exactly what you need to learn during these years.

Good luck

Answer 3

I don't see any reason you shouldn't date him, especially if you like him a lot. Just keep it "friendly dating". I noticed that you didn't say you loved him, so you may be feeling some conflict or uncertainty about that. I do see a big negative in having sex with with him - your life is going to somewhat upset by the move and you probably shouldn't add sex into the mix ( aside for the fact that I think sex should wait until you are both older and more settled in a relationship :) Good Luck

Answer 4

Sorry to blow the bubble but there are many more men in the world and you to would evidently break up. But there is hope however I'm sure as you grow older/wiser you will find many more relationships to be in. The break up will be hard but you will get over it. So to learn some life leassons what the heck. You to can date for a little whlie. It will teach you something.

Answer 5

well,think!do u honestly beleive this is your true love?the one?
maybe there are good,better things waiting for u in the new place
but,it's your choice,u can go out,with him,just to see what 'll happen,but don't get to attached

Answer 6

one thing is since he is going to move and ya start going out it is not going to work. he's goint to find someone else and you won't know. there are a lot of guys out there try to find someone else who is really gonna be there for you.

Answer 7

omfg
u should tottaly likt go out wit eacother
long distance relationships can like work like tottaly

juzt like go out wit him


like yah

Answer 8

Do it your young, you only live once, if its meant to be it will happen. No Regrets