i have been told i am attractive i am a 26 year old male 6ft 4inch tall dark hair blue eyes but i just seem to get really shy around nice girls i dont know why? i want to talk to a women and not just stutter can anyone help
2006-08-09 10:52:24 · 11 answers · asked by simon g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk about regular things that dont bring up the subject of dating, if all goes well ask for her number or give her urs. its simple, and also nice to know that attractive men get a little scared by us women and arnt all chovanistic big headed pigs.
2006-08-09 11:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deep breathing. warn the girl you're shy. Most girls think thats sweet, and then she'll understand if you stutter or dont say a lot :)
You need a nice girl with the patientence to let you get comfortable
2006-08-09 17:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gotta build that CONFIDENCE up! if you are good looking you should have noticed girls looking at you in a certain way, maybe your misinterpreting those looks? Dont be blind to the little messages girls give out! Life wiil pass you by if your not quick mate!
Been there done it mate ( man of experience in my younger yrs!)
2006-08-09 18:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the time to examine yourself, find your strengths and weakness. Build on your strenght and work on your weakness. This will help you to be more confident about yourself and whatever is holding you back or making you shy you can find it and then find a way to get rid of it.......GOOD LUCK
2006-08-09 18:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of gong to the woman thinking about asking her out, treat her as a friend. go into the relationship being friends. she will appreciate that, and will help you to get a better prespective of want she wants. if you have already settled a freindship it will be easier to talk to her or ask her out. i think that will work. good luck and bet wishes!
2006-08-09 17:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to have a normal conversation but avoid any words starting with P or T
2006-08-09 18:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink more beer, it lowers your standards.
Lower standards = less pressure which in turn = more confidence around women
This exact science has been working for years
2006-08-09 18:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by alx n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine she has a tooth missing or a great big zit on her nose. You won't be so intimidated then!
(by golly I wish I were 6 years younger!).
2006-08-09 18:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by CC...x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice practice practice. Start with the ugly ones. Get up your nerve and then work your way up.
2006-08-09 17:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by ABN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try my space.com good place to chat
2006-08-09 17:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by cookedermott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋