Met a beautiful, intelligent and awesome girl thru a friend and we have hung out just about every day on the weekends in the past month. She has all the qualities i am looking for in someone i see my self being with and having hopefully a relationship with and for some thing long term, but, there is always a but, most women I meet nowadays are all about hanging out and having a good time with me and nothing ever seem to come out of it, and I am tired of wasting my time each time because life is a whole lot easier to deal with alone than have feelings for someone who will eventually once done with me will move on to someone else. HELP ME LADYS, I am the good guy who never gets the right girl, what can I Do?
2006-08-09 10:44:42 · 10 answers · asked by knightj30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
continue trying, You never know what the future holds!
2006-08-09 10:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a pretty cool guy. Look at it this way, if the women you've hung out with in the past didn't end up being what you hoped they'd be, then I say, it's a good thing to find out now before you made the mistake in marrying them or wasting time in a long term relationship. The right woman will want exactly the same thing you want, and she will turn up when you least expect it. Good luck.
2006-08-09 10:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something very soothing about a nice guy.
They give their time and energy to making you feel beautiful and special and they demand very little of you. Then, with strength regained, you can step back into your life.
I know just what you mean about wasting your time with people who move on, when all you really want is someone to settle down with.
I think you probably have to stop being such a nice guy and begin to make your own needs and dreams heard. Then set yourself some limits.
Maybe give six months as a time for seeing whether this is going to turn into something long-term and then, if it isn't, move on yourself? But let her know what it is you're looking for as soon as you can.
The worry is that you might scare her off, but look at it this way; if she does, then you will have wasted very little time and you can continue your search.
There is someone for you. It might be this girl.....or not, either way, you won't be alone forever.
Good luck.
2006-08-09 10:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Claudia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is the right one she will be open for a longterm relationship. Just don't go to fast take time to enjoy the courtship. If you are always looking forward to the end result you never really enjoy the trip there and that's the most important part is the time that you learn about eachother. Good luck and let things play out as they are meant to.
2006-08-09 10:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by tia_jenn2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just go with the flow. i have a long term relationship its been 4 yrs now. nobody knows what anyone wants unless you let the person know. communication is a very good thing to have to start a long term relationship as well as all the other stuff a relationship between two or more persons should have. just be cool about it never rush or take too long to do something when it comes to this.
2006-08-09 10:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking the right girl is out there saying "I am a good girl who never gets the right guy." It will come when you least expect it. Just be open to people. Girlfriends come in the strangest packages sometimes.
2006-08-09 10:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see her try to show interest in her try to hint to her that you like her without telling her and if she starts to pay more attention to you then make those hints a little stronger each time unless she starts to get uncomfortable with you. If she likes you for more than just someone to play with shell want to take it slow. Which is what you should try to do.
2006-08-09 10:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. She may be wondering the same thing...You don't know until you ask...Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained
2006-08-09 10:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit trying to settle down with every girl you meet.....date lots of girls get to know lots of people....enjoy everyone for who they are...when you find the right girl you BOTH will know it
2006-08-09 10:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why what is wrong with u?
2006-08-09 10:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋