My boyfriend is really good friends with a girl who is a mutual friend of ours.?

Question

She actually set us up, and we've been togethor 6 months now. But recently, I've been kind of annoyed because they went out to dinner togethor the other day without including me. It's been really bothering me since that day and I haven't told him that. How do i bring up the subject without sounding like i'm jealous?
(here's some info, they've been friends for like 3 yrs. and he told me that she at one time tried to seduce him, and he also liked her at one time. But just remained friends. This is why i'm feeling kinda insecure about the whole thing)

Answer 1

you should be grateful to her; just because they went out for dinner once, you should still be appreciative if she set you two up. It sounds like she respects both of you too much to try and ruin your relationship. Until you have proof of them cheating (which I doubt will happen) you shouldn't get upset about it.

Answer 2

Just sit him down and tell him how you feel but do it in a calm manner. Dont be puchy or accusatory about it. Just tell him that considering what has happened in the past between the two of them you feel a bit uncomfortable about them going to dinner without you. If he loves you then he should listen to what you have to say with an open heart and open mind and be understanding about it.

Answer 3

first admit to yourself that u are insecure. there's nothing wrong with that...dont believe the rubbish that u shouldnt feel jealous when your boy goes out with a female without including u...let those who say that have thier boys or gals go out with others...

so tell him and then tell her. and be prepared to let them move on if they are soooo into each other. They should be in the "relationship"..at least that will spare u the heartache of being two-timed with your consent..there are other guys who want to have an exclusive relationship with U. best of luck.

Answer 4

it is ok to worry. most people would