I'm so tired of being nice to men. All they want to do is walk over you. I'm tired of being hurt, cheated on, abused and taken for granted. I want to be a Bad Girl. Why do men sya they want a nice girl, but they pay her no mind and don't apperiacte her?
2006-08-09 10:16:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to hurt men like they have hurt me.
2006-08-09 10:22:29 · update #1
Men can be a** holes for sure. The bad girls only get men for one thing and we all know what that is. So thats not a good idea because women aren't prammed like men, most of us can't simply have sex and leave without feeling like dying sometimes. We are more emotional and don't fool yourself into being someone that you aren't. You'd regret it later on, if not emotionally , then with an STD ro something.
You should be good, but also assertive and have fun in a relationship. Don't let men cheat on you or abuse you, do some type of legal revenge to make him regret it. I personally find much satisfaction in teaching people lessons. Then get rid of him as fast as you can !!!! It'll make you feel better. A good man will come if you give it time, for now just be happy with your family or good friends
2006-08-09 10:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey no need to be a bad girl, what you need to be is a stronger girl.
why would you let men walk all over you, treat you badly.
You need to change your attitude, and at least you are thinking in the right direction.
It's your life, so live it as you see it, and do what is good for you.
Remember, you are a special person in your own right, no one else is quite like you.
So if you feel yourself mistreated, dump the bum, and find someone who will treat you, as you should be.
That's not being bad, that's just taking care of yourself.
2006-08-09 10:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are alike...some appreciate those for the nice girl they are...but there are guys that need a challenge to appreciate what they have..I think the type of guys your attracted to have given you the impression you need to become a bad girl in order to keep their attention...if that's the kind of guy you must have then be willing to do what you have to , to keep him...but don't go against who you are as a person...there are men out there who can love you for you...good luck.
2006-08-09 10:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want a nice girl for security. A nice girl won't cheat on them, won't lie to them, will take care of them. But they want the bad girls for sex. Almost every man has domination fantasies.
It's the same for women, though - Women say they want a nice guy, but they always fanasize about the bad-boy types.
2006-08-09 10:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are with the wrong men. There are alot of nice guys out there looking for a nice girl. Don't stoop to a player's level and act how they treat you. Hold yourself above it and keep the faith. What you put out in your life will return to you three fold.
2006-08-09 10:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Onegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay good and true and your perfect partner will come and find you its no good fretting on how you have been treated because you chose to go with that type of guy so be carefull next time or even wait for Mr right it wont take long if your really that nice honest because we can sense good and bad in every girl
2006-08-09 10:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go bad because there are louses in the world. Be a lady. Walk like a lady. Talk like a lady. Dress like a lady. Fix your hair and makeup like a lady. Act like a lady. There is a gentleman out there that will see that and WANT that. Trust me.
2006-08-09 10:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs don't make a right...
Stay loyal to yourself & your partners because what peole don't understand is all those bad things we do to others will be brought back upon us.
It is even okay to evalutate yourself & your behaviors in your past relationships:
What did I do in past relationships that pleased/displeased my partner?
What good/bad things did my partner do to me?
If my partner did bad things to me, was it something I could have prevented/predicted?
Are there positive/negative things past partners have said about me that have been said by more than one partner?
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Depending the circumstances & habits you may find things you could even learn from & save yourself some heartache. It ain't the end of the world girlie..the right one will come in due time. Take care!
2006-08-09 12:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you are probably hanging around with an indifferent crowd of people...it appears to me that you have a wise intellect but are unsure what to do....be yourself...stay away from those idiot guys who do not appreciate you for the quality person you are...the right people will flock to you eventually
2006-08-09 10:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A bad girl would have just be bad if you have to think about being bad YOU ARE NOT A BAD GIRL and guys can tell.
2006-08-09 10:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by ColdHustle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋