What do guys really like in a girl? I mean, some guys are different. Some like them skinny and some dont really care (I prefer them) Im kind of , in the middle. So what is it you like about us? Personality?Looks? hmm. :]
2006-08-09 10:10:06 · 42 answers · asked by Victoria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow. I cant even pick a best answer. They are all really good! Thanks Guys and Gals :]
2006-08-09 10:37:15 · update #1
smart, funny, easy going, honest, self respect, morals
2006-08-09 10:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that men really look for what is inside of a woman, and yes appearances are nice, but they don't amount to anything if the woman is not a good woman.... my ex has dated some really bad looking women and I am very pretty, he also stayed with me the longest because I don't do drugs, I actually loved him, and I care about people and things and I love and care deeply when I do love and care. It was never about me being pretty or having a nice body, it was because I was me on the inside, loving, nurturing, and caring to him and others and myself.....
2006-08-09 10:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such answer. Every man has different tastes. It's my belief though that good man wants a girl with a strong family background, is trustworthy, opinionated, strong willed and confident. Put all the physical stuff aside and remember that looks don't last forever but if you are loyal to yourself and what you believe in, true love will find you.
2006-08-09 10:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be much more effective by channeling your thoughts to YOU...rather than THEM. There are all types of guys and ther likes and dislikes range from the sublime to the absurd. Do not fit their profile. Construct and build your own You decide what you want rather than what they want. Take a deep profound look at yourself and realistically define your strong points and your weaknesses. Improve or modify your week points and display and put forward your strengths.
If you cater to what you think "men like", you will never be in control and constantly put yourself in the position to be used.
I don't care what you look like or who you are, You can be your own person if you develop your mind, use good common sense, always dress and look neat and treat others with respect. Also you must demand respect from others. I don't mean force...but stay away from people who tend to disrespect you. Walk with pride and dignity and don't stoop to others level by indulging in stupid arguments that ain't about nothing.
Lastly...don't drool over males who put themselves above you...you are above them and always carry yourself with class.
2006-08-09 10:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it's all about a person taking care of themselves. That shows me they love and care about themselves, so naturally that would start with a person sees on the outside. Then comes comes personality, because let's face it, if you could have the hottest girl in town, but if all you ever do is fight and not get along, why even be with each other. Hope this helps
2006-08-09 10:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer as you can see in one of my questions (How do i know if a girl is into me?) caring, sweet, cute, skinny or in the middle girls. Hair color doesn't matter. The first thing i see is the face then the breast an then the rest of the girls body, after that i see if she is nice with me.
2006-08-16 09:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamcaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys look for looks, others look at their personality, some guys even just want to have a girlfriend without really liking you. They are all different honey.
2006-08-09 10:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys look for the same thing. I personally don't mind if a girl is 'in the middle'. The looks stimulate the loins... but the personality and character is what stimulates the mind.
2006-08-09 10:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Alex C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always looks at first, Men are visual creatures. I think it depends on the attractiveness of each woman as to what they like portion size. If you all around gorgeous it probably wouldn't make that much of a difference if you were athetic as compared to skinny. If a average looking woman is skinny who do you think he is going to go for? I believe its all around beauty that counts.
2006-08-09 10:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think now days guys have realized that the prettiest girls on the outside aren't always that pretty on the inside. I think guys look at the whole package now when their attracted to someone.
2006-08-17 05:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by summertime_cutie05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to understand this, Men are programed for the type of woman they like partly by their parents, family member and their environment, also by what type of woman that are in their environment . The greatest programing of men has to do with their fantasies. And by what they consider un-attainable. Now this should give you some sort of inside look as to what men prefer in what their woman look like. also the woman's reaction to the man himself. All these things play a big part in what a mans like. And a woman that thinks that she is too good looking for the average man is what drives men to look for the opposite. and the opposite woman are the most successful in finding a husband and having an successful marriage...........all you have to do is check out the stats at your local library..................................................................
2006-08-09 10:38:50 · answer #11 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋