My bf is real good friends with a mutual friend of ours? maybe too good of friends!?

Question

Okay, so here's my problem. Me and my bf of 4 mo have a friend that i have only known for a year and he has known for longer who actually set us up. The problem is is that they hang out alot one on one. What do you guys think of this? Should i just let it go or approach it and take the chance of sounding too needy and/or b. i. t. c. h. y. I wouldn't feel so bad about the whoule situation if she wasn't so pretty but i feel a little intimidated by her and i'm afraid that if he ever cheated on me it would be with her. How should i approach this and should i say anything...and if so what? thank you

Answer 1

I don't think she would've hooked y'all up if she wanted him.

You're just setting up unnecessary insecurities that could end up damaging your relationship, and possibly even your friendship w/ her if she knows how you feel. She may be a pretty girl to you but it doesn't mean that all men would try to talk to her before talking to you. Don't worry if there is nothing to worry about.

Answer 2

Here's my advice to you honey.......Sometimes we all need to just open our mouths and let the ones we care about know whats going on in our heads. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. There is nothing wrong with feeling unsure about outside relationships. Talk to him. Its true that because he knows her longer that they have a relationship that cant go away. If she hooked you two up you would think that she could have had him if she wanted but instead she opened that door up for you.

Just let your bf know that your worried about there relationship but you dont want to end it you just need to understand it a bit.! Good Luck!

Answer 3

well first, assure him that you trust him. and second, just tell him how you feel about the situation. some guys just don't see the obvious, so you may need to point out the fact that it's a concern of yours. it may, in fact, just be hanging out between the two which is why he sees no problem with it. but yeah, just tell him how you feel and be open and honest with him. good luck!

Answer 4

i think you should be b.i.c.h.i.e. becuz he is with some gurl that she hook you and him up and they are hanging out with each other ALOT then i would be *********.i.e. to him if he ask why are you being *********.i.e. than you tell him what is the matter or you should say we are over i am moving along you can have that slut and i will have a guy that DOES care about me and don't hang out with other gurls than me if he said's i am sorry don't for give him gurl cuz he is going to do it again!!!

p.s. need advice email me at [e-mail] ( dump him ) =)

Answer 5

Well if you have you doubts tell the guy how you feel about the relationship and be honest.. if he is sheating or ever cheats on you, what can i tell you... move on.

Answer 6

if she wanted him she wouldn't have hooked you up

Answer 7

Go with your gut ... !