They have been divorced and are wanting to get re-married... I am not totally against this, but c'mon already! Isn't one enough!
2006-08-09 09:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by Happy Health Coach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I believe from your question that you where a part of the first one. If so just relax and decline in the most pleasant way ever member she is a friend. and she must think you are special to want to include you in both weddings. as for having a second wedding wow some people don't get to have one but hey she is making it a point of two good luck to her and her future husband maybe he's the actual one for ever. but hey go have fun and enjoy the party!!!
2006-08-09 10:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to opt-out if you want to, you shouldn't be required to be a part of the wedding, you can go if you support the union but being a part of a wedding that was done before is an expense you probably don't need, and more hastle than it is worth, and make sure that your feelings are known. Having a big or even semi big remarrige is a bit strange, they should have a small gathering, where the only ones who have to buy anything or spend any money are the bride and groom, you already did your part.
2006-08-09 17:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I argee and I think it's super tacky!! It's like having a baby shower for every single kid that you have! You only get one. The second wedding should be simple and low key. I think it's completely disgusting that people have huge wedding and think that people should be in their weddings again!! I also think it's super tacky that re-married people regestered! I am sorry, If I sound horrible but I was in the same situation and I refused to be in a girl's wedding because of it. I wore an ugly dress once, throw you a shower once and bought you a damn wedding gift once- I refuse to do it again. I personally like to tell people I only do odd numbers- I'll be in your 3rd one :)
2006-08-09 17:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't blame you for not wanting to be in the second wedding but do remember that your friend must think a lot of you to want you be an attendant in both ceremonies. I would just politely decline, citing some other reason as to why you can't.
2006-08-09 17:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest tell her no and why if she is a true friend she will so understand,
2006-08-09 17:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by bifgrl31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not rude. jsut try to be a supportive friend, as usual.
2006-08-09 19:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋