What is it like the first time you have sex? Me and my boyfriend were planning on having sex but it's my first time and not his and I'm just curious. Please be serious!
2006-08-09 09:49:50 · 44 answers · asked by Alissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it hurt and i cryed. I wanted to go home and take a shower to wash the feeling away. I wish i would have waited till I was married then I would have never had that feeling. Even if you are in love with him dont do it, it hurts and its you morte emotionally. Because they dont stay around forever like that. ANd you just gave him a piece of you that he probably doesnt deserve.
2006-08-09 09:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I waited too long (in my opinion) in life to have sex for the first time. I am happy that I have only slept with 3 guys so far, ever. My BF has been w/50+ though. If I were to live life again (just high school/college years), I would more than likely choose to have sex with more people.
In society there is such stigma about sex in both directions -"do it, do it" or "wait until you're married". It's so hard to decide what is right for each individual.
In my opinion, DO IT. Just PLEASE be super careful not to get preggo or get cooties! That is the biggest downside to sex. Well, I guess girls also have that whole emotional tie attached to sex that guys DON'T (most don't even if they say they do).
Just make him go super slow and make sure he gets you good and excited! That will make things go much smoother! There's nothing like being not ready (you'll be tighter and not as wet which means it could hurt more).
2006-08-09 10:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by jagresss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex for the first time is very exciting but sometimes it can the regretful if you end up doing with the wrong person. Think carefully before decide to have sex. Sex is not something you just do for fun or tried for fun. It is something that happen and you can never change it. So remember, the guy that you are doing with, is he the one you will see a long term relationship, and a future together. Of course if he is not, you shouldn't. Because once it happen, you can't turn back into time. Always, remember to use a CONDOM.
2006-08-09 09:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by kathy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hopefully you aren't to young, but either way just make sure that this is what you want, cause no matter what kind of syrgeries there are out there, you can't take it back! Heads up though if you choose to go through with it, it will probably be the most uncomfortable and awkward situation that you have faced yet. Don't plan on you getting much satisfaction from it and be sure to use protection! Theres nothing worse then those out there that got pregnant or caught something on their first time.
2006-08-09 09:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this first time you are talking about is just that the only time you will have a first time. Is this the boy you want to give that up to? Are you in love and planning to be married? Don't have sex just to have sex! This is a most presious thing to give away and I think girls should stop before doing the act and think about the fact that you will never get this chance again and are you going to waste this on HIM?
Stop and think before you act.
2006-08-09 09:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by cindy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe i am not the right one to answer this cause i did not do it until i was engaged but let me take a stab at it. Since you are planning it i an not gonna say wait( even tho you should) You are gonna be nervous so the most important is to relax and go slow and there is going to be some discomfort even pain but it should pass quickly my first time was not the best i liked it more the 2nd and ever time after.
2006-08-09 09:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by l_iwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this guy then it should be nice. Try not to do it in a parking lot or something like that. If you're still talking about it try to suggest some things you'd like. Like candles, roses something like that. Ask him to take it slow because there is a little pain at first but after that it's good. Also there may be a little blood. I hope your old enough to realize what your doing. Oh, and use a condom! If he's had sex before you don't know what is going on in his pants. Be careful.
2006-08-09 09:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by dlfoster67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that this is what you want and are ready to give your virginity to the man that you love then don't worry about it hurting or what will happen after wards. Just know that you are loved and the person you are with will be gentle and loving.
The first time is different for every women out there! For some it hurts for others it doesn't. Some bleed others don't....you can't really be told how it will feel because we are not you and we don't know your body. My advice to you is to be 100% sure of what you are going to do and enjoy the moment...it only happens once!
2006-08-09 09:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by ~Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you should definitely wait until your married. If you don't then you are committing adultery. Be sure that you are ready.. You may regret it. And it is going to be extremely painful and you will wonder why you ever thought it was a good idea. He will enjoy it but you will not. Make the right choice sweetie. You may not be the only one he's having sex with either..Think about that. Also if he truly loves and respects you then he will wait until you are ready"on your wedding night"..God Bless
2006-08-09 09:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not so bad their just trying to scare you. When you first start it won't seem so bad till he pushes past your hymen in which case this will burn/sting for a few minutes but if you take your time and enjoy yourself you should forget all about the burn. UNLESS your under 18 then it HURTS LIKE H E L L!!!! Have fun and enjoy (unless your a minor) ((and if you are think of the WORST imaginable pain and multiply it by 10)
2006-08-09 09:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Angel B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋