I live an hour away and see my girlfriend only on most weekends. Recently she has put on weight and I am a healthy person who works out everyday. I'd like to get her to know that I want her to lose weight so she can live a healthy lifestyle such as the one i am living. I can't exercise with her during the week because of the distance. What do I do, and im not a scumbag i just believe she should do it for her overall health, she still is perfect to me.
2006-08-09 09:48:18 · 3 answers · asked by Clark K. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to leave her alone. It's her life and her body. If you start making comments she will resent it and get all stressed out and gain lots more weight. If you don't like her the way she is, do her a favor and break up with her so she can find someone who will appreciate her good points and not try to make her miserable about her weight. You only get one life to live, and, get this straight, it's NOT her life. You can't change another person - all you can do is make both of you miserable. So accept her as she is and shut up or move on.
2006-08-09 09:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Its nice of you to want your friend to be healthy and all ,try this programme and I am sure it will work for her ,
If you are serious about losing weight, the calories in the food you eat should be less than the energy you use. You will have to increase your metabolic rate now, and plan your diet carefully.
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Good luck
2006-08-10 00:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight up! baby i love you but i think you should go on a diet. I'm telling you this not to make you feel bad but because of your health. She'll undersatand and if she doesn't drop her!
2006-08-09 09:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♥QT♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋