I don't mind them chatting but im getting the felling that she might be trying to take him from me someone plz help me out. Thanks
2006-08-09 09:41:26 · 17 answers · asked by renee144592 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are going in the wrong direction. Stop trying to "control" you'll lose friends and boyfriends.
2006-08-09 10:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i was just in this position two years ago soo here is what i done it worked...........
i talked to my bf and he said no no no thats not what is goin on (if he says that i wouldnt beleive him unless you really trust him) but if he says ok we wont wait a week if they dont stop talk to you friend say hey im not tryin to be mean but i dont like you and my bf talkin to much please dont talk to him as much only when im around or on the phone i just got a bad feeling about this soo please if she is your friend she will stop and if it dont stop a week after that talk to your bf and tell him like it is
2006-08-09 09:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start chatting it up with his hottest male friend, give him a taste of his own medicine! I'll bet he stops chatting with her then!
2006-08-09 09:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, to address her on the subject would only escalate it. If you are jealous and feel insecure, talk with your boyfriend and find out where he is coming from. If he really cares and respect your feelings he will discourage your friends efforts.
2006-08-09 09:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her. Talk to your BF. Tell him to stop chatting with her. She can't chat by herself. She is not your friend. Friends don't invade on their friend's turf. Check your man!
2006-08-09 09:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that if ur bf needs a friend that ur all the friend u needs.. let her know that she's getting a lil to close for comfot.. let her know that she needs to make her own male friends other than ur bf.. ask her does she like him.. ask her why is she so chatty w/him... make sure they haven't exchanged tel #'s.. make sure they don't be visiting each other on the DL when ur not around either...
ask him what does he think of ur friend??
2006-08-09 09:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you take her to the side and tell her that you don't like her chatting with him and it would make you feel better if she stoped.
or some thing like that
2006-08-09 09:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are they chatting over the phone? If so just tell your BF your not comfortable with it.
2006-08-09 09:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes obviously not trustworthy.... get a new bf uer friend may or not be doing this to make u mad and also uer bfd is just responsible for his actions . goodluck.
2006-08-09 09:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by blueducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cannot "take him" from you unless he wants to be taken. And if he does, than your better off that it happens now instead of later.
2006-08-09 09:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋