I love smoking and my the guy I'm seeing doesn't smoke weed and he tells me that one day that its going to mess up a relationship I honestly think it wont its either deal with it or move on!! right?
2006-08-09 09:33:01 · 32 answers · asked by mama21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are the one who needs to stop smoking
i hope he leaves you
2006-08-09 09:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nia24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The weed in and of itself won't help or harm the relationship, but the attitudes either or both of you take into the relationship (concerning this issue) will. It's usually better if you're equally yoked in your outlook on things like that because resentment can build up when one partner is "preaching" to the other, or when one partner has to deal with little "roaches" all over the place. If you two are the compromising types, things could work well even if both of you don't indulge, but if one or both of you are the "it's my way or the highway" sort of people, then it's better to find someone who shares that interest with you. Good luck.
2006-08-09 09:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a smoker, but so is my boyfriend> I guess it's the same as drinking, if one drinks and the other does not it could cause probloms, it may not. But if he says it will cause problems, you got a pot of water just boiling away. If he has a problem, there will be bigger problems in the future, either quit, only if you want to, or some how explain to him it is not a big deal, alcohol is more harmful than smokin' weed. Or things just weren't meant to work out! Good Luck, and GB!!!
2006-08-09 09:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by sammyw1024 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i smoke 3-4 times a day. dont plan on stopping. have a girlfriend who doesnt smoke (maybe 1or2 a month) and doesnt mind that i smoke because she says my behavior is exactly the same high or not. It really should not be such a big factor in a relationship. think of all the people who are married 2 alcoholics, that is way worse
2006-08-09 09:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by entertainer416 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weed is fine unless you have children, then you should stop. And dont smoke in front of him if he is offended by it. It only messes up the relationship if you let it and it sounds like it may this one because he has already mentioned that it may. Depends on how much you care about him I guess. GL
2006-08-09 09:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen I had two friends both smoked and they were seeing each other and the thing is if two people who smoked were having problems then I think its the same if not worse for you, but here is the best part, just tell your bf OK its over then... because weed is more important see what he says then... peace hippy
2006-08-09 09:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a guy who likes to smoke weed with u i know tons of guys who would love a girl to get high wit him and smoke wit him that way yall can sare weed and it will be more weed
2006-08-09 09:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by daysha p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about the guy, can you place your weed habit aside?
Maybe the guy is worried that you may graduate to other drugs.
Or, maybe the guy is a player and doesn't want to see you become a junkie.
2006-08-09 09:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you smoke weed and your b/f doesn't do it and doesn't like it he can deal with it or leave you. He doesn't have to be around it. Don't do it around him. Respect each other.
2006-08-09 09:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by babegirll23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to exist on different levels...one sees the same thing differently when high, it may not make it wrong but to many things add up to being incompatible...you must ask yourself whats right and whats indifferent...a compromise can be reached but not if your not willing to make some sacrifices.
2006-08-09 09:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 05:37:20 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋