how do i move on how do i not call him i still miss him . ladies i want to break up with my boyfriend but how i still miss him i still love i have to fight myself not to call him even though i dont want to see him i still want to talk to him on the phone. how do i help myself from not calling him
2006-08-09 09:27:06 · 24 answers · asked by WD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop thinking about yourself ... you're too self absorbed.
Someone you know ... could really use YOUR help right now ... Come on now, one foot in front of the other ...go out there ... When you make someone elses day a little brighter ... it comes right back at you!
2006-08-09 09:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am really sorry for you,well i understand how you feel but you just have to move on,in true love it is the soul that envelopes the body,what you have to do now is the opposite,be strong and occupy yourself,its ok to think about him,because the memory will never live you ,but you can help your self by keeping away and making yourself happy as possible.i know you get tempted to call him,pick up the phone and make other calls to amke you busy think of calling him but never call him,but i would prefer both you break up and still remain friends,that will be so nice,since you love him and want to break up with him,its better you love him as a friend and loose him forever.the choice is yours but take over your soul and be strong,after time is a sure thing for a broken heart or to forget things.time helps in healing the mind.
2006-08-09 16:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by sherry c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, if you love him and miss him why do you want to break up with him, would be my question. Avoiding him is not the answer, that is forsure. Have an honest talk with him. After that, accept that you made this decision. But if you cant accept that you made the decision, maybe you shouldn't break up with him. There just isn't enough information here to really give you sound advice.
But avoiding him is NOT the answer
2006-08-09 16:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You miss him right now cause your bored get some girls together and have a night full of fun and no men if you broke up for a good reason and it truly didn't work you will get over him it just takes a little time. After about one month of having fun and not thinking of him u should be good!
2006-08-09 16:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes, moment by moment, hour by hour, and day by day.
But each day that passes, will make it easier for you.
But you can't just sit and mope, get busy, meet your other friends, make new ones.
Take on some new projects, the mind can't really multitask, so if yiou are busy with something new, you can't think about him.
You are just going through a sort of grieving process and it will take time, but time does heal, and you will soon be over him.
2006-08-09 16:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone else to take your time. You keep yourself busy. Talk to your friends when you start to miss him. They can help you through whatever happens. Just don't call him if that's not what you want to do.
2006-08-09 16:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by babegirll23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you too end? I had to let go of someone...I prayed for strength...didn't know what else to do...I've never felt such pain. Sometimes you need to love him enough to let him go. You are also probably lonely, because off of a sudden, you don't have a b/f around...hang out with the girls...keep busy....do not call!! It will only make it harder in the long run.
2006-08-09 16:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by smt1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals mostly everything.
Keep yourself busy, usualy when you think about calling him it is because you have too much time on your hands, better yourself and do something. There are ways to not have to leave him but yet improve your relationship.
Dont make it hard for you.. Go out and meet new people
2006-08-09 16:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by <3Priscyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to break up with him? Has he cheated on you? Verbally or physically abused you? Then just draw that to mind each time you feel like calling him.
There's plenty of guys out there. Find one who'll treat you well and don't hesitate to dump the ones who don't.
2006-08-09 16:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Cathy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY TIME CAN HEAL YOUR WOUNDS!!! ITS GONNA BE HARD FOR A FEW MONTHS BUT YOU WILL EVENTUALLY FEEL BETTER. KEEP YOURSELF OCCUPIED AS MUCH AS YOU CAN, AND BELIEVE OR NOT CRYING HELPS A LOT, IT RELEASES TENSION AND RELAXES YOU, SO LET IT ALL OUT. ALSO FIND A SUPPORT SYSTEM, FRIEND, FAMILY MEMBER WHO IS WILLING TO LISTEN, AND TALK ABOUT IT A LITTLE. AND TRY TO BE STRONG WOMEN A STRONG BEINGS EMOTIONALLY, SO NATURALLY YOU HAVE THE STRENGTH BUILT IN YOU THAT WILL HELP YOU MAKE IT THROUGH!!!!LASTLY, (AND THIS SHOULD HAVE BEEN FIRST) PRAY!!! IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD ASK HIM TO GIVE YOU STRENGTH.
2006-08-09 16:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by sassytrini2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋