in my family my dad is always say you are wrong and my mother is always say you are right and then they begin to fight so what can i do for this problem?!
2006-08-09 09:22:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hang in there, be strong and everything is going to workout. It's never easy when your parents fight, it becomes stressful and sometimes that stress carries over into your life causing problems. It's not up to you to fix your parents problems it took me a long time to learn that but in the end it was the best thing for me. The only thing you can do is tell your parents how there constant fighting is effecting you personally. Maybe if they know that it's effecting you they will work harder at what is causing the arguements to start to begin with. If nothing else works maybe your parents should seek counciling from a minister, or psychologist. The best thing you can do is focus on your life and make sure you take care of you. You don't have to live with your parents forever just until you can find away out. My way out is going away to college.
2006-08-09 09:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to try not to be in the middle. I solved this problem by just not asking their opinions any more. It is sad when the grownups act like children, but unfortunately there is nothing you can do about it. Just try not to act like them yourself. Perhaps your mom thinks that everyone else is right because your dad is always telling her she's wrong? Let them get on with it. It's sad, but oyu have to.
2006-08-09 16:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by big_fat_goth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a daughter, I'd say that its not up to you to try and solve your parents problems.
Although it'll be hard for you to listen to the arguments, they are the grown-ups and should start acting that way.
Explain to your parents that it is worrying/upsetting you and maybe they'll respect that and keep their fights out of earshot and make them think about resolving their differences!
Good luck
2006-08-09 16:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick your head in the sand and do what you think is right leave them 2 fight it out
2006-08-09 16:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what the right and wrong is about. if your parents are fighting the best thing to do is stay out of it, do not take sides let them calm down
2006-08-09 16:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by cross_sox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
at the end of the day your mum and dad are big enough...old enough... and who knows ugly enough to fight their own battles !!!!! do not get sucked into this, you will come off the worst for it at the end.....who-ever says duck.....JUST BLOODY DUCK !!!!!
2006-08-09 16:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by winmaygo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi don't ask for their advise if it upsets you ask an friend or other family member or just somebody you trust for advise instead it will save the arguments
2006-08-09 16:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hardest lesson in the world to learn is that your parents are fallable. They can BOTH be wrong.
2006-08-09 16:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them and tell them that they dont always have to fight over every thing i have the ssame thing happen to me my mom and dad fight over whose rite anf rong
2006-08-09 16:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ally. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u say anything ur only adding to it, easier said than done but just ignore them
2006-08-09 16:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by MissElection 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋