he is not a virgin and i am and he asked me if i would do anything with him and i told him i would think about it i dont know. its not that i dont want to but it is not that i do i love him and i know he loves me and we have a date friday and he said he has a surprise for me. and i dont kno, what do you think about premarital sex?
2006-08-09 09:20:41 · 8 answers · asked by faitherzbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't dis-respect those who have but do respect those who have not....he respects you now but will he respect you in the morning...think more than twice about giving it up...you can never get it back.
2006-08-09 09:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think premarital sex is fine. I think waiting until you're married is a little ridiculous because I feel it can make people rush into marrage if they strongly believe in no sex until marrage. Besides, what if the person you want to marry is a complete suckfest in bed? You don't want to waste the best years of you sex life with someone who sucks at it. But thats just my opinion. Having said that, I would wait until you really are in love. I've only had sex with people i've really loved, and even though the relationships didn't work out, we're still best of friends. I still have feelings for them all (all being 2).
2006-08-09 16:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think premarital sex is a bad thing i mean.. how do you know you wnat to be with someone for the rest of your life is you havnt tried a little bit of everything... i dont mean to go owt and be a slut but.. its not a bad thing.. then agen guys say stoopid things to get you in bed... wait a while.. how long have you guys been dating... are you in a serious relationship.. are you ready... for the consequences??? do you have.. the rite guy... will he be around.. if ne thing were to happen... things like that.. you have to ask yourself.. cuhs some guys are really smart.. and they are good at acting like they care and love you.. but at times.. they dont have ne intentions.. to stick around.. especially since your a virgin...
2006-08-09 16:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by xswtxdrgnxgurlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's even a bit of doubt in your mind, you're probably not ready. My husband and I have never been with anyone else and I think it makes our relationship that much more special. It was difficult holding out sometimes, but worth it.
2006-08-09 16:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by caitlinerika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....having premarital sex at 21 one gave me a son.....now 3 yrs. old......if he needs a "prove of love" then he is as confused as ur....and he is not worth it.....if he is a hot shot....then he is playin' u ......don't give it away unless u mean it......just think ....u will remember this fool the rest of ur life.....do u really want him to be that person.....
2006-08-09 16:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a whole lot of people is having premarital sex and if you don't then don't do it
2006-08-09 16:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds corny but it really is true, you should have sex when you are ready and not becuase you fell pressured and if he really cares it won't matter to hiim if you want to wait.
2006-08-09 16:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by missjessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a virgin stay a virgin unless your old enough and if he can't wait then to h*** with him
2006-08-09 16:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋