We broke up over a yr ago and stayed good friends until about a few months ago. Shes got a new b/f who the family hates, hes an a$$ to her and she even told me that shes not feeling him nemore (3months ago) yet shes still w/him. Even as "just friends" i was still there for her more than her b/f and would text good morning almost every morning after becoming good friends after the breakup cuz i knew she loved it when i did that and i knew her current b/f didnt do sweet things for her like i used to. So i would text her to make her feel loved and let her know she is loved and she loved it that i would do that. 2 months ago i stopped w/the goodmornings and we havnt talked since like shes mad at me for not being there for her nemore and texting goodmorning when she has a b/f still. So we stopped talking alltogether hoping she would realize what shes missing and letting go of. I know she still thinks of me cuz im close w/her sister and i talk w/her sister alot. Any ideas on what i can do
2006-08-09 09:10:00 · 18 answers · asked by Keyon F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait, she'll come around
2006-08-09 09:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by X's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry what's the problem again? She's obviously moved on and I think that you should too. I think that the only reason you are still there is because you are hoping to get another chance. Remember once lovers, you cannot be friends later. She's grown enough to deal with her own problems she doesn't need a superman. And why would she miss you guys had a relationship together remember! She's knows what she had, and it's over now. The way see it is that you are being used. She usues you as a rebound guy when her b/f f**** up. Then runs back to him when all is well. You are worth more than that, you are there for her but really what's she doing for you? Think about that for a minute.
2006-08-09 16:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by sassytrini2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you are doing. She obviously got to comfortable in your friendship and wasn't thinking about you. If you are as sweet as you make it out to be, then you deserve better, in a g/f and from friends. It sounds like you became a bit of a door mat and the only way to stop that is to stand up for yourself. As far as ever being with her again, just let her know how you feel and tell her when she figures out who she wants to let you know. In the mean time get back on the horse and date. You don't want to miss out on a good thing cause you are stuck in the past.
2006-08-09 16:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you still really like her so the best thing is to just approach her and tell her that you do and that you'd like to be with her and if she wants to be with you she should let you know and if she doesn't she should also say that because you want to be able to move forward and on with your life and try to get her out of your mind as a girlfriend if it's jut not going to happen. It's best to be honest and if she's honestly not interested just feel the pain for awhile and than do your best to move on. It sounds like you've put good effort in with her and if you put that effort into someone else they may appreciate it more and you stand a very good chance of finding someone who will appreciate it and treat you right. Good luck.
2006-08-09 16:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by jljdc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. This is not the answer you will want to hear, but it's the best piece of advice you'll get. Move on. I believe you when you say that you're a better man than this new boyfriend of hers. I believe you when you say you treated her better. That's not the point though. The two of you are over and will more than likely remain over. It's time to move on with your life. I'm not saying be mean to her. I'm just saying don't make her a priority in your life anymore.
2006-08-09 16:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a text in the morning that says "good morning beautiful". It will make her realize that your not mad at her and you still care about her. Just be there for her and she'll come around in time, hopefully. Good luck! =)
2006-08-09 16:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to make the decision for herself. You can lead a horse to water but you cant make him drink. If she is gonna dump her man then she has to do it on her own. You did what you could and you are clearly a good person. Move on to someone who wants to be with you. Good Luck!
2006-08-09 16:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't to much you can do if she is still with her bf. talk to her and ask her why you haven't spoke. Maybe you two will be able to get some questions answered. And you might find out she still wants you, you never know.
2006-08-09 16:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after breaking up with her you became a real frend, and now with her and her new b/f that she doesnt like, its something like u let her down with u not sendin goodmorning again, like shes lost a frend. start texting her "goodmornin" once in a while, see how she responds....
2006-08-09 16:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by MyaC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isnt ready to leave that guy n be wid u, then let go...turn ur attention elsewhere...u deserve some1 who returns ur feelings..wen she realizes wt she missing, she'll be back..else it wsnt meant to be...just hang on..time will decide
2006-08-09 16:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by babydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious opinion? Leave her, get a life! If she can't be faithful to anyone she's with right now (she chose above you), she can't be faithful to you either!
Good Luck though! I understand how it must feel!
2006-08-09 16:14:36 · answer #11 · answered by ngt_765 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋