I started dating this girl 3 months ago. She was in another relationship at that time. She didn't tell me about it though. Then she said she has broken up with the ex and few weeks later when she got a little bit upset about some thing she said that she hasn't decided who she wants to be with yet. Eventually, she decided to be with me and I know that she said it to the ex clearly. I know that still any time she gets a little bit upset she goes to him. Maybe just for his sympathy. she clearly mentions that she loves her ex more than me but when I ask her that why she didn't stay with him she gets upset. Anyways, she is really selfish. I know there is no limit for her and at the same time she doesn't know what she wants so she might go after anything anyone, anytime, if she finds it interesting. But I still love her. What should I do if I don't want to break up?
2006-08-09 08:59:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up and grow up
2006-08-09 09:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-12 04:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tom, ur situation mirrors my life... n i play the role of the girl.. wat u have to know is dat its hard to let someone go...esp the love of ur life, as in my case.. ive tried hard.. but mine ws a case where we were separated by our parents, nt by a mutual understanding or a brk up.. but in ur case, if she really broke up wid her ex, then well, even then, i thnk the best thing fer u is to leave her alone fer some time...let her make up her mind..its nt a matter of being selfish.. u love her n accept her even wen u clearly see that she loves someone else too...all i can say frm my personal experience is to leave her alone fer sometime..let her make up her mind... i dnt thnk u deserve this treatment..no1 does..u shud be wid some1 who complketely returns ur feelings...give her the time to decide whether she wants to be that person or not..
2006-08-09 16:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is love enough to be with a cheater? It's not a very strong relationship if she's running back to an ex evertime you make her mad. Dump her as$ and move on.
2006-08-09 16:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She stays with you to make him jealous, the problem is he doesn't really want her and that's why she's with you. She couldn't stay with him because it's not up to her.
You will be better off without her. She will always treat you this way as long as you let her.
2006-08-09 16:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what else happens, treat her with respect. You probably should not stay with her, but still treat her with respect. Who knows what the future holds. Also, whether you stay with her or not, be ready to forgive.
2006-08-09 16:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should break up with her--she sounds horrible. but if you are in love with her, tell her that you wont stand for this crap anymore--how horrible for her to admit that she cares for her ex more--why is she even wasting your time then, but honestly, by staying with her, you are preventing yourself from meeting someone that will love only you--and not their ex. I guess my only advice is to stand up to her--
2006-08-09 16:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.♥ Krasinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-09 16:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk and if she gets upset kiss her and tell her its okay but u really want to talk about this and if she loves u she will
2006-08-09 16:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i would be looking for someone else if you don't want to get heart broken.
2006-08-09 16:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by idontkno 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋