This is to my african-american family. Why can't we stay together when it comes to family issues, etc.?

Question

I know that we're not the only race that has this problem.
Here is an example. My aunt adopted a baby boy years ago. He was our cousin, she did to keep him in the family. Good on her part. I first met him when he was almost 2. We instantly bonded for some reason. His adoptive father and his real father over years never really did anything with him. We became really close. He sometimes would call me daddy or tell people he had 2 daddies. At the start my aunt would encourage me to do things with him because she said I was the only person that took time to do things with him.
Then suddenly one day her attitude began to change. She would make up reasons for he couldn't go to the movies with me or put strict time limits us when we would go places together. I stayed like 30 minutes out of town so it took a lot out of me just to come and visit, work and date.
The breaking point came when I found out that she asked him did I touch him anywhere. After that, I saw him like 3 times.

Answer 1

Because some of us like to judge people.. i go through stuff like that all the time.. i could be going through a crisis and instead of them comforting me they gotta be calling up this one and that one gossiping about it.. then when they see me they try to act all concerned and shyt....

in ur case why don't u just confront the aunt and ask why would she question him about that?? ask her were there rumors circulating or if someone else touched him and she's just tryna be cautious making sure ur not doing the same thing?? let her know that u look at him like a son and that u would like to continue to do things w/him...

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