is it ok for my mum and dad to come in my room with out asking 2?

Question

k a wanted 2 ask this cos a seen sum1 who asked something and i think they was jst been silly cos my mum in dad jst comes in my room when ever they want and dont ask is it ok or should i tell them 2 stop i neva thought bout it till now in that person asked that in then a thought my mum in dad does that in ur silly but then l8er i thought is it ok for them 2 do it and i dont really know they hve come in b4 when i had nothing on by axcident and i jst thought it was sumit that parnts done till a seen that person ask that question in now am not sure so would sum1 tell me if its ok 4 them to jst come in

Answer 1

Post the question again in plain English and I will attempt to answer you.

Answer 2

I think that once a child reaches a certain age, parents should at least knock before entering the child's room. That's just common courtesy and respect for privacy. They would expect you to do the same. So I am on your side.

What really bothers me, though -- why can't you learn to write and spell properly, without all the on-line gibberish that kids have adopted? I can just see you trying to get a job in later years with that kind of vernacular -- I know you know better.... End of lecture!

Answer 3

It doesnt matter how old you are, it is respectful to knock or let people know that you're going into their room. Even without the privacy that we'd all expect, it can be a shock if someone just appears unannounced.

Text speak is OK for a bit. But not a whole essay of it! To be honest I didn't bother reading beyond the first question.

Answer 4

Well, they are your parents, so technically, yes they are allowed in your room without asking. Personally, I think it is a invasion of your privacy. Even though you are living under their roof, I think that they should respect your privacy by knocking. If you feel the same way, maybe you should try talking to them. Say something like this " Mom, Dad. I know I live under your roof and you can come in my room any time you please, but I think I am old enough that you should respect my privacy by knocking first." That may express your feelings without your parents thinking you are being disrespectful to them. I hope all goes well. Good Luck!

Answer 5

The fact that you are asking that question means that they should knock, you are as entitled to your privacy as much as aany other human being.

If you can clean up after yourself and dress yourself then you can be afforded the same privilages as an adult.

Ask them tentitively, explain that you get embarrassed, even if they say they have seen you naked a million times, say that you are not comfortable with them walking in.

They wouldn't dream of walking in on another adult so why not you.?

Answer 6

good luck with this and yes i could read you question OK but that is because i am used to reading stuff that is wrote like this my little sister writes that way so its not really uncommon for kids to write like that these days

OK back to the question

I am 23 living with my parents and my 12 year old sister and my parents don't knock at either of our doors they just walk into our rooms when they feel like it it is not a problem for me and just like you i have been walked in on naked i just say (mom, dad) which ever it was can you wait till i put some clothes on and they go back out and wait perhaps you could try it in your situation

good luck

Answer 7

Yes, it's ok for them to come in unless you're paying rent, but it's nicer if they knock first and wait a moment if you say you're not dressed. Do you go into their room without knocking? Why don't you suggest to them that now you're getting older, it might be a good idea if everyone knocked the door before going into anyone's bedroom?

Answer 8

She is not 18 l8er is text for later,its a terrible way to write !
Just ask your parents for some privacy,they should respect your modesty as you get older and more independent !

Answer 9

Do you knock on their door? They really should be knocking on yours by now. Good luck with that though. The only reason my mother doesn't barge into my home is I lock the front door. I know she's there when she runs into it thinking it will open right up.

Answer 10

if u r still a minor then u shud wait till u r 18 to ask for privacy.but if u r an adult then make the habit of locking ur door.if they ask what's up,u can gently remind them that u need ur space..

Answer 11

First, learn English. Your post does nothing except tell everyone just exactly how ignorant you truly are.

Second, if you are living in their home, yes, they have the right to barge in. It's rude, but they do have the right. Ask them to respect your privacy as you respect theirs. Barging in is rude.