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Ok me and this guy (who happens to be my best friends cousin) well we got involved and we were deep for like 2 weeks then we got in a fuss ,well it wasn't actually a fuss it was more like he said don't call me ,he got a gf, i was cool with that ya know of course i was hurt but if he got a gf then theres nuttin i can do well i know im eventually gunna have to see him again and i don't want there to be any tension or contreversy, so how do i break the tension when i eventually see him again, i know i'll have to see
him in October cause im goin to my best friends family reunion, i mean i know just act normal but it's kinda hard to do that around a guy who you were with a couple months b4....... Help

2006-08-09 08:41:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Im sorry i should have added this but, no sex of any kind was performed, wat i meant by fooling around was we kissed and all that, i forgot who i was talkin to,

2006-08-09 08:49:52 · update #1

10 answers

You shouldn't be engaging in premarital sex at your young age. Sex confuses relationships for adults, it just sullies them for teens.

2006-08-09 08:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by dixie_til_i_die 5 · 0 0

girl there is nothing wrong with just acting cool if you go to the reunion and you see him don't be pushy don't be chatting just watch the vibes i didn't say watch him girl i said watch the vibes as in people around you, stay focused let him know that you don't care anymore, you do but you are not showing it ha ha, anyway help out keep relaxed and be in a corner where the people that he is going to you make sure you be there and when he comes just leave and go for a drink take a walk and then if yu go back step a side a little distance from him and keep quite, watch the vibes if he says hi, say hi and stop don't talk, let him talk cause he was a dog in the first place to tell you that he has a girlfriend, relax and fell as if there is nothing in this world that can hurt you men hate that to see that we are standing after what they put us threw. And when he see that your cool he will realize what a dog he was and he is going to be concerned for you and he is going to talk to you or even want you to go away from the crowd to explain girl down loose your cool look him straight in the eyes when he is talking to you and let him know that there is no hard feelings i know you want to kill him but you can't ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ah let him know what a pigg he is even put a fake cry and they say i don't want to take about it and look he is going to feel like **** even though he is for putting you threw pain girl good luck.

2006-08-09 15:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0 0

If you see his current gf there, be kind. Treat everyone like they are family - this is your best friend's reunion. Don't be disrespectful and ruin the occasion. You can be mature and handle this. Remember the manners your mother tried to teach you - there's a reason they exist.

2006-08-09 15:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Spiked Coffee 2 · 0 0

WOW. Congrats to you for being able to hold up and be a strong woman. There wont be tension unless you put it there. So relax when you see him treat him as any other friend of yours. Nothing different and dont metion to ne one that u have slept with him.

2006-08-09 15:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just put aside whatever bad feelings may exist. It sounds like you're still gonna have to see him so why not do it with a smile and not bring anything painful up if you don't have to. If he's a gentlemean he'll do the same.

2006-08-09 15:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why is it so weird? So what you bumped uglied for a couple weeks and now you have to see him in two months. I think you'll be alright, just act normal.

2006-08-09 15:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

what u need help for its ova with u 2 leave it that way but to be mean make ya self look hot so he can get all jealous oh n take a hot date withcha

2006-08-09 15:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0 0

i say talk about the past. the kissing, the hugging, the sex (if any). that will ease any tension you might have.

2006-08-09 15:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Why do you want to speak to him, he sounds like a knob

2006-08-09 15:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by Michael N 2 · 0 0

leave him. and live happily.

2006-08-09 15:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 0 0

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