my boyfriend wants to sleep at his cousins house tonight, who is more like his friend, his cousin just broke up with his girlfriend and is now living in an apartment by himself in a bad neighborhood where there are alot of "hoodrats" walking around with barely nothing on. my boyfriend has cheated in the past but hasent in a long time, should it be ok for him to sleep there, without me? yeah yeah dont say i should just trust him, do you really think this is very appropriate for a man sleep somewhere besides his own home with out me?
p.s.
they like to get really drunk too, and we all know wat getting drunk can do to people!
2006-08-09 08:38:00 · 10 answers · asked by jnnybartos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seriously people! would you let your BF or GF SLEEP over somewhere?
2006-08-09 08:53:18 · update #1
and by the way, he doesnt want me sleeping at my sisters house (who lives with my dad) because he said it doesnt make him comfortable and i could be out doing god knows what.
2006-08-09 08:55:54 · update #2
Honey, there is a reason that you doubt him. He has hurt you in the past and he will hurt you again because you allow him to. If he wants to spend the night at a friends house he is clearly not thinking of you. He wants to have fun without you and possibly meet some hoodrats. You have to make the decision if you want to be with someone that does not regard your feelings or thinks of you first. My boyfriend tells me everything, he is very loyal and would not do anything that would make me feel uncomfortable. It took me 12 years to find this man.
2006-08-09 08:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust him but, due to the fact that he cheated on you before should be more protective over him. I am saying being a stalker if you let him spend the night of there but, just telling how you feel in the right way and just maybe would ask you to come along.
2006-08-09 08:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by crazykinard05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u can't be his mother and his girlfriend.. u need to give him some space if he wants to spend the night w/his friend and comfort him.. what do they need u for? to make marshmallows and hot chocolate.. r u that insecure.. if he cheated on u in the past and u took him back and now u don't trust him, who's problem is that?? don't make it his friends problem...
so what they get drunk, isnt' that what guys and gals do?? u can't follow him everywhere he goes 24/7.. if he's gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat..
face it...
2006-08-09 08:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I read it, he is just going there to party and what else? Let him do it, if you say something then you will be the bad guy. Trust though is a big factor in a good relationship. I wish you luck!!!
2006-08-09 08:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should let him go, keep an eye one him or tell him that you r staying at one of your friends house that is going through something ( make anything up, whatever u know will click something in him) and see what he says or do his jealous side get the best of him.
2006-08-09 08:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THERE IS NO TRUST THEN YOU HAVE NOTHING. SO IT SHOULD BE OKAY FOR HIM TO SPEND THE NIGHT WITH HIS COUSIN BECAUSE YOU DO NOT TRUST HIM ANYWAY. HE CHEATED THE FIRST TIME. KNOW MATTER WHAT HE TELLS YOU, YOU ARE GOING TO FEEL THAT HE IS LYING. DRUNK OR NOT DRUNK, IF HE WANTS TO CHEAT HE WILL CHEAT.
2006-08-09 08:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by PRECIANA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would NEVER say you should trust him. Him wanting to sleep there means he is up to no good.
2006-08-09 08:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ask him if you could trust him not to cheat with anyone.
2006-08-09 08:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by ruby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
partey
2006-08-09 08:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you his mom or his girl?
2006-08-09 08:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋