I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months & we always go to his place. He gets mad @ me because I won't let him come home with me. I have never had a guy come back to my apt. It's just that I don't want a guy to know where I live unless we start to get serious. Do you agree with him?
2006-08-09 08:34:51 · 16 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah i agree with you. better safe than sorry. all though 3 mos is a long time in a relationship. but if you explain that to him he should respect that. so good luck
2006-08-09 08:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months? I think it should be safe by now, and if you don't think it is then make sure you have pictures of him and his address written down, just in case.
But think about this... If I were him, and after 3 months you didn't let me come to your place, heck if after a month you didn't. I'd be very suspicious as to why and I'd begin to think that you were either seeing someone else, a very messy person, living with a guy or lieing about something else.
2006-08-09 15:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ricardo P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you gotta realize you are goin to his crib without any problem. If you dont want him to come over your house you shouldnt go over his house until yall get into a serious realationship. Keep it real. He may feel rejected or like u hidden something. Ya Kno?
2006-08-09 15:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months and u aint sure if its serious well maybe u should clean up ur place n bring him on ova or move on i can see why he would get all mad n upset
2006-08-09 15:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him. I don't mean that in the physical sense either. If he can't abide by your principals at this time (because I'm sure he'll be at your place once YOU feel comfortable) then forget him. If he hasn't the patience to bear with this little thing...what's next?
2006-08-09 15:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months is kind of a long time. If I were you, I'd wait a few more weeks before showing it to him. Good luck!
2006-08-09 15:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you, I am kind of like that, I don't want anyone to come over. Maybe in the summer invite him over and have some beer and music and try to have fun.
2006-08-09 15:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jalaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let a guy stay the night in your place!!! It is like he has won the lottery, and will soon be wanting a key of his own!!!
(If you do give him a key, and he looses it, do not give him any newkey!!!)
2006-08-09 15:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by lonnie_m_d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should only do things you are comfortable with. He has the choice to either be ok with that and be with you or not be ok and leave you. Each of you has a choice and both should do what makes you feel comfortable.
2006-08-09 15:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by willinkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's good to be safe, but three months is a long time. If you don't trust him maybe you shouldn't date him.
2006-08-09 15:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋