If your paths keep crossing, it is hard to get over a crush. The best thing to do right now would be to spend time with other people. Pal around with one of your friends so when your path crosses with your old "crush", you can keep talking to your friend and ignore the "crush".
If you are still in school, join a study group, that way you won't be out and about and accidentally meeting your "crush".
Take up a hobby, something you enjoy and takes up your time. Do volunteer work, you meet other like-minded people and you can make new friends. (Might even find a new boy friend)
You can spend more time with your family, helping out at home. Your mom may go into a state of shock, but hey! That would be worth it, right! LOL You might even ask her how she got over her crushes before she met your dad. After these little conversations, your mom might even cut you some slack. (Not a guarantee, but who knows)
Join a fitness club, get active, move around. Physical activity helps increase the levels of serotonin in your body and will help with the sad feelings about getting over a crush.
Hope these ideas help you get through this rough spot. Good luck.
2006-08-16 12:29:31
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answered by Ding-Ding 7
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Try not having any communication with this person and just start looking at yourself, pamper yourself if you need to, it will be hard, but eventually you will wake up one morning and think 'what was I ever thinking liking this person' you will be fine. good luck.
No problem, Just remember this will not be the first crush you have, try to let others get close to you, accept their friendship- dont try to push them away hoping that your old crush will come back to you. Pretty soon you will let your guard down and that wall you have built. It's hard, I know it but just remember to remember about yourself, dont loose yourself. Best wishes.
2006-08-12 01:33:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Find some new eye candy, or take up a hobby or cause that keeps your mind off of the old one :)
2006-08-16 13:19:29
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answered by hesmycorky4life 2
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get a hobby or a pet of any kind. something to get your mind off of the old crush.
2006-08-16 11:11:37
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answered by Nickie 2
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Try to fixate on the negative aspects of that person, then blow them out of proportion so as to trick your brain into hating them. It worked for me!
2006-08-16 21:59:32
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answered by Kirtap 2
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Dropkick him like Chuck Norris... Always works fa me!
2006-08-12 01:41:13
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answered by Anonymous
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IT HARD TO GET OVER SOMEONE BUT I ADVICE IS TO START DOING THINGS WITH FRIENDS, GET A HOBBY,
GET INTO OTHER ACTIVTIES, START HAVING FUN, AND
YOU WILL SEE THAT THERE IS A LIFE WAITING FOR YOU
AND YOU NEED TO JUST GRAB IT .
2006-08-17 00:04:19
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answered by luckystar 6
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