but i don't want to cuz like we're just friends n the last time we did somehting sooooo many rumors spread and i don't want to happen again but at the same time i don't want to make him feel bad .. please help!
2006-08-09 08:33:20 · 5 answers · asked by carla h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are really gullible. Where did you lose your self-respect? You're just being used. Where will it end?
2006-08-09 08:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Intelligent and curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obvisouly thinks of you of more than a friend, and you dont. Set it straight, tell him you are just friends and that you care about him alot, but just as a friend, and you don't want rumours to get around....if he is your friend, you should be able to be honest with him, and he should understand where you are coming from. You have to tell him point blank, because seriously guys are morons! He's going to think that you are just playing around with him and maybe that you like him more than a friend. You may hurt him, but hopefully he'd be mature enough to accept what you have to tell him, and move on. If he makes you feel like crap for telling him how you truely feel about taking things further with him, then he's not your friend. And just the fact that he is your friend, someone that you talk to, and are able to open up with should make him feel special enough...dont let him pressure you into doing something that you dont want to
2006-08-09 15:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, when you say he's your guy "friend," then what is he doing trying to be physical with you?
Sounds suspect to me. If he wants you as just a platonic friend, then he has a strange way of showing it. Are you sure he's not trying for something more in the relationship?
Either stay "friends" with him and tell him that's all you want, or determine if you do want more.
If he doesn't get it, then he's not really a "friend."
2006-08-09 15:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree w/the 1st guy u sound really gullible.. this isn't about making him feel special dum dum.. he just wants to get a nut and then tell eveyone about it like he did before..
guys just say that to get into ur pants.. how would u be making him feel bad by giving into peer pressure.. if anything he's tryna make u feel bad and guilty for not giving up ur most prized posession..
let that jerk no, that oh well oh well if he doesn't feel special... don't make him feel special knowing that ur gonna feel bad...
u come 1st not him tyna bust a nut......
he don't care for u, if he did he wouldn't be pressuring u to give him some...
2006-08-09 15:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the oldest line in the book. He is a player and sounds bad. Don't ever let a guy pressure you......NEVER!
2006-08-09 15:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jill P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋