What should I do abou this, they think im a bad person, my husband and I have cleared things up and we are back together but his famuly gives him bad advice, what should I do about this
2006-08-09 08:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What matters is that now you have made your husband understand. It would take time for the family to stop bad mouthing. Give them the time and it should all fall in place as long as you and you husband get along well moving forward
2006-08-09 08:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by Freya N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st # What happened that you seperated?
2nd# What did he tell his family the version that happened?
3rd# Did you give him any reason to believe this?
4th# If he really loves his family and things are not going well for the both of you they (family) will win and he will be out the door.
This one is hard love because men see their wives as Saints not capable of acts of sin only with them and only in secret. So when he told his family that you cheated on him in anyway that is like the saint becoming a whore in there eyes and there is no turning back. Like the old saying goes Forgiven but Never Forgotten
2006-08-09 08:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey woman,who is the man of the house,the man or his family,who is in charge of the house the man or the family,who fell in love ,married you and made you his wife,the man or the family.woman you dint have to worry ,you only have to worry about your husband,if he is totally convinced you didn't cheat on him then you have nothing to worry .and make sure you win his love back because there might be some lack of trust for now but make him believe and avoid getting into trouble or saying anything in short just avoid passing wrongly on the sides of inlaws,maybe the dint just like you anymore and looking for faults and who knows if his family are not even responsible for the frame up of your husband believing you cheated on him,just do all it takes to win your husband back and let him you are still the same woman he made vows to and not the woman his family claims to be bad
2006-08-09 09:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by splendid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is committed to his family, unfortunately, more than he is to you. It wouldn't be advisable to try and "do" anything about the advise his family offers him, unless it has been to keep you under his thumb, so to speak. It would be advisable for both of you to seek marriage counseling in order to work toward developing a commitment to each other. Good luck to you!!!
2006-08-09 08:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Everand 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his family. Family always wants something to gossip about. Just enjoy your husband and mind to your own family. They will get over it!
2006-08-09 08:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to them personally, with him present, and tell them you have worked things out and that you would nevr be unfaithful.
sometimes hon, people are just not gonna like you and you have to just deal. you know what I mean? dont stress out about it because some people are just rude.
2006-08-09 08:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by 128333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you cheat on him?
2006-08-09 08:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by windfishfighter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋