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2006-08-09 08:18:10 · 17 answers · asked by Mister X 2 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

17 answers

No It says in the Bible that its wrong

2006-08-09 08:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I don't like to judge how people conduct their life. I don't care if another has premarital sex or think it's a crime, rather I think people are just rushing their relationship when they have their whole life ahead of them. Not that they can't have a successful life or family if they wish to do so. Just that as a human we make mistakes and the time tested approach to many things is time itself. We associate marriage as a signal that the individuals have taken their relationship seriously and taken time to think about the many outcomes. And that's the only reason I wouldn't consider it, because I just don't want to jump into things without really considering what's at stake

2006-08-09 15:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Elliot K 4 · 0 1

It's actually beneficial to have premarital sex. Practice makes perfect for one. Also you at least listen to one song on a CD before you buy it right? If the song is bad you don't want the CD. If you find out the sex is bad after getting married your relationship will suffer.

2006-08-09 16:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by ChooseRealityPLEASE 6 · 0 1

Yes and no.
It depends a great deal on how old you are.
At 10-16, it is very bad for your development as a person. It is so hard to tell love from sex, and you can get mixed up and it hurts your self-worth.
From about 16 - graduation from college, it is very dangerous, because it is so easy to get pregnant, or illnessess because boys (and girls) LIE. I know it is shocking, but boys will say just about anything to get a girl naked.
This leads to lots of young women raising babies by themselves and starting off in life all backwards, instead of being educated and making money, to support a beloved child.
Boys will disappear and go on with their lives and leave you stuck. The grandparents are left heart-broken.
After a person is about 20 or so, and are not just having sex with just any body, then it is an important part of getting to know your-self and your loved one.
I think NO one should marry someone they have not been intimate with for a while. You need to know as much as possible about your loved one.
When you get to be my age, 56, it is important to help you keep feeling alive and healthy. It is dangerous since you can still get diseases and men(and women) will still LIE to get you naked.
I live with my boyfriend, and we may not get married for years, and I wouldn't want to miss out.

2006-08-09 16:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0 1

More bad than good comes of premarital sex. Not only are your chances of STDs increased, but your chances of one day staying with your spouse become very slim, as does that of you and your spouse trusting and valuing one another. For the sake of society, your possible future children, and your own well being you should curb promiscuity, ideally waiting until marriage. I did. I recommend it. :o)

2006-08-09 15:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

No. It will cost you your life.
That is one of Satan's oldest and sharpest tools.
It goes with lack of knowledge just how serious it is with God. It is detrimental to the soul.

Too many think they can screw around on a Saturday night, and go to church Sunday to be forgiven. It's a trap. And old and powerful trap of Satan's.

2006-08-09 15:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by rangedog 7 · 2 0

No.

1Th 4:3 For this is God's will, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality,
1Th 4:4 so that each of you knows how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor,
1Th 4:5 not with lustful desires, like the Gentiles who don't know God.

2006-08-09 15:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by steve 4 · 1 1

My personal opinion doesn't really matter, but since you are in the Religion section, I'm hoping you think God's viewpoint does matter. I am going to include a link to a Bible based discussion that considers your very question. I hope you will take the time to read it.
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2004/7/22a/article_01.htm

2006-08-09 15:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by izofblue37 5 · 0 2

No.
Simply these verses.
1 Corinthians 6:13 " The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord."

Matthew 5:28 "But I [Jesus] tell you that if anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

My answer: save yourself for your spouse. Stopping sexual sin now will help you to connect fully with your spouse later.

2006-08-09 15:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by historybuff2009 2 · 1 1

I don’t live in fear of a fictional book. As long as your not intentionally hurting your partner and are willing to take responsibility for any future outcome, then I say have sex to your hearts content. I would however suggest using a condom.

2006-08-09 15:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Searching Dragon 2 · 0 2

Personally... no. When two people have sex they are becoming one person. No, I don't mean literally, I mean spiritually. Sex is the best gift you will ever give to your spouse. Save it just for them.

2006-08-09 15:25:55 · answer #11 · answered by millie279 2 · 1 1

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