Me and my b/f live together and are planning on getting married. just dont know when yet. well anyways. we have been tryin to get pregnant for about 3 months now and still nothing. is there something wrong with me? i feel bad about it to though b/c that is all he talks about....how he wants a baby...when we have a baby hes gonna do this with it.....when we have a baby he wants to buy this for it.....i feel so bad....what do i do?
2006-08-09 08:17:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
What you do is go see a doctor and see what is preventing you from getting pregnant...I highly suggest you both get married first then bring a baby into this world.
2006-08-09 08:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is necessarily wrong with you. Doctors will not test you for fertility issues until you have been trying for a year. (I know cause I was close to that point, but got pregnant naturally both times.) If it doesn't happen after a year than you will have fertility testing and so will he to see if he is the fertility factor.
Get married first (could be holding up you conceiving ) and than you can go further. Babies are a huge responsiblity and you want to make sure this guy is really on board. I was married for almost 3 yrs and had my tubes checked by u/s for PCOS and ovaries checked for cysts. I was clean and just had to know when I was Oing and such. We got pregnant naturally with my daughter last year (lost her at 24 weeks though) and than in January of this year with my son (presently 32 weeks today)
Good Luck
2006-08-09 08:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ericka K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is a very short period of time to get pregnant. You might want to try an ovulation kit. You could just be missing your ovulation time. Don't give up and start stressing so soon. In fact stressing out about it and putting more pressure on yourself can actually have an adverse affect on the cycles of your body. You might want to do a little research and share what you find with your bf, since it sounds like he needs to chill a little bit about it as well.
Good luck.
2006-08-09 08:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by saintlyinnocents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of seen a doctor first. But since you guys are trying and found out that it's been hard for you to have a baby, there's a possibility that you might have an assist in your uterus. An assist in your uterus might be causing you to not be able to have a baby. There's a chance that it might have spread throughout your entire uterus or there is still a chance that it has spread to only some parts of your uterus. You might just want to go get a check up on that because if you have an assist in your uterus, you'll want to have surgery and take it out. One symptom you can try to see if you have is if your uterus hurts when you don't have your period. If it does hurt when you don't have your period, then you probably do have an assist in your uterus.
2006-08-09 08:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it just takes time me and my husband was havin sex for 3 years before I got pregnant and we wasn't even trying. My sister has been trying for a while and hasn't got pregnant. Once thing I do know is the more ya stress ya can't get pregnant. Stress puts off something in ya body that makes it not get pregnant so just relax. But talk to ya doctor may be something more. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-09 08:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sondra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, relax, sometimes it takes time - you can't just tell your body to conceive. Second, why isn't he 'talking' about you getting married, instead of what we are going to do with the baby? Sounds like he wants the cart before the horse, values are a little backwards. Maybe there is reason why you have not conceived yet.
2006-08-09 08:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by GP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong probably...It took about a year for me to get pg because I didn't know anything about ovulation and stuff...do some research and figure out when you ovulate...buy an ovulation predictor kit...also, maybe try talking to your b/f and telling him he's making you feel bad....maybe he doesn't really you feel pressured and guilty for not concieving....
2006-08-09 08:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took us about 18 months to concieve naturally. Most docs won't even start to find out if there is a problem until you've been trying for a year. Good luck
2006-08-09 08:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by laura w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a planned pregnancy you should get married first....it would make things alot easier. if you cant get pregnant you should talk to a fertility doctor...they could prolly give you a reason why youre having a hard time concieving
2006-08-09 08:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one you need to let nature takes its course and relax..let your b/f know that stress is a key factor in not getting pregnant..no stress better luck...another thing that worked for me and my husband was holding off sex for a while..it was easy cause he was out of town on business and when he got back it was on and we were pregnant the next month...and dont feel bad about it-your lucky you have a b/f who want s children...GOOD LUCK
2006-08-09 08:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by willsgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋