I have a boyfriend who is really good to me. He loves me with all his heart. However, when we met I really wasn't that attracted to him, I grew to care for him but I'm not sure if I really love him I don't want to leave because I may never find another man like him. What should I do?
2006-08-09 08:08:58 · 10 answers · asked by missjessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not really afraid to be alone, I just don't know if I'll ever find another man that is really devoted to me.
2006-08-09 09:19:51 · update #1
Be thankful for what you have. There is a lot of women that don't get a good man. Also always remember the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
2006-08-09 08:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in the same boat when I was younger. As I got older I realized that when I fall in love with a guy I get hurt in the relationship, when they are the ones in love with me but I'm not in love with them all I get is good things. They treat me fantastic all the time and do everything for me. I dont know what you should do but just figured I would tell you what I think.
2006-08-09 15:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful for what you have the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence. Besides; he doesn't abuse you and lie to you. You could jump out into something worse. Whose to say if you do end the relationship; that the new guy may feel the same way about you eventually. What would you have him to do?
2006-08-09 15:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your worried about finding another man like him then
(A) chances are you love him!!!
(B) why find someone like him when you have him
(C) looks are not everything there's a Lot more to a relationship then looks and physical attraction eventually the looks will fade in anyone you find and all you are left with is who they really are! so what you have to ask yourself is if you were blind would you be attractred to him?
2006-08-09 15:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by shortygurl2shy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fear of being alone is never a reason to stay with someone. If you don't love him, let him find someone who does......and you should give yourself the chance to do the same! Real life is not for sissies!
2006-08-09 15:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Betty G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go watch the movie "Summer Lovers" starring Daryl Hannah. Its a HOT movie and will give you something to think about.
2006-08-09 15:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called "settling for what you have" and it's a horrible thing to do to yourself and to your significant other.
If you don't love him then you owe it to you and to him to break it off and give yourself both the chance to find true love.
2006-08-09 15:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WE USUALLY ONLY GET THIS CHANCE ONCE IN A LIFETIME. SOMETIMES A PERSON REALIZES HOW MUCH THEY ACTUALLY LOVE A PERSON ONCE THEY LET THEM LEAVE OR THEY LEAVE THEM. SO BE CAREFUL NOT TO LET THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE GET AWAY FROM YOU BECAUSE HE MAY JUST BE THE ONE.
2006-08-09 15:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by PRECIANA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF AFTER 4 YEARS YOU STILL DON'T KNOW IF YOU LOVE HIM OR NOT; THEN YOU DON'T. IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON. YOUR NOT BE FAIR TO HIM.
2006-08-09 15:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not what he looks like its how he treat you
2006-08-09 15:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋