Is the man of my dreams out there or should i just wait around for my ex to keep taking the piss
2006-08-09 08:02:41 · 13 answers · asked by Kerry B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex just messes with my head and hurts me and thinks im his property while he does what the hell he wants with whoever he wants
2006-08-09 08:13:56 · update #1
lets kill two birds with that stone in your hand.
there is one out there for sure and he will apear in your life as a suprise. you may have to change something in your life, meaning that you are not going to find mr right in a bar for example. rather in a place where you share an aspect of your life.
when you meet that person, be open and honest with him and if he has the same interest then the impact of your ex`s geering in your life will diminish because you will focus on the positive experience of your new friendship.
this hapened for me this summer and my feelings with my new girlfriend reminded me the importance of happiness in our short lives.
the ex will soon realise you can move on.
i know someone for you;-)
2006-08-09 08:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by viikos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it's much easier to find Mr Right when you're happy and confident, and have your head free of any other entanglements.
Your ex sounds like an idiot and it sounds like you know it too, so don't waste any more of your valuable time on him - just cut contact. I know it'll hurt in the short term, but in the long term you'll get over him and feel much better.
Then you'll be able to be happier, move on and be more open to meeting someone lovely. Just don't tolerate any nonsense - if someone messes you around then move on, you won't meet someone nice if you're wasting time on the wrong guy. Generally, if someone treats you badly it means you're not right for each other - if they thought enough of you then they wouldn't mess you around.
Have you thought about trying internet dating? Often the people on there are sincere about trying to meet someone for a decent relationship - it worked for my fiancé and I anyway, plus several other couples we know!
Good luck!
2006-08-09 15:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often wonder if the right girl is out there for me... you shouldn't let your ex push you around he should except the relationship is over and move on.
2006-08-09 15:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the man of dreams is out there in fact the man of every womans dreams is out there so keep on looking :-)
2006-08-09 15:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by supercutebubblegum12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes lose the Ex. he is an EX for a good reason i take it !?
2006-08-09 17:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by andylefty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to be open to your destiny. letting the ex hang around will block things. sure someone's out there for you. why not?
2006-08-09 15:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absoulutely. There's always the perfect partner. Just gotta find them.
2006-08-09 15:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your ex taking a piss or taking the piss ???? I do not get it ????
2006-08-09 15:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find Mr Right and when you do I want his brother!"!
2006-08-09 15:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is. go around and look for him, if he doesnt turn up dont give up. he might find you.
2006-08-09 15:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋