My brother-in-law is going to be married next month to an immature, spoiled brat. I accept the fact that they are getting married because the fact is that he loves her. Since she will be joining the family, I really need some good advice on how to deal with the fact that I do not like her.
2006-08-09 08:01:28 · 10 answers · asked by ElEdTeach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Always be civil and polite (not necessarily 'friendly'), and don't spend any more time with her than you have to.
2006-08-09 08:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel really sorry for you.
Mine married a witch, got stuck with 3 great kids,
she stayed nuts, and now he can't get rid of her for under 250 K, and he is just a teacher.
I sure would have the brother take a REAL good LOOK at
her mother and envision himself married to
HER 30 years down the road.
Is fiance still so appealing>>>>???
My sister in hate is just a carbon nut case of her own mother.
sorry, got no good news or advice from me.
I have missed my dear brother for 35 years, and
he could have been so happy--it has made him cynical and cool to know--not like when we were kids, he was generous,and loving and sweet--I still adore my brother--but even he would have done it differently if he had a choice NOW.
2006-08-09 08:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in line with possibility she is jealous of you! She appears like she likes being centre of interest - you're saying that she became on you around the time of your wedding ceremony!!!!! You needless to say have a super husband and new child/babies, you have way greater advantageous than in hassle-free terms having superb clothing/ slender physique. She needs to be the main suitable, so she is making an attempt to make you look undesirable. attempt to no longer get entangled in her interest, she needs to get a life (a real life) of her very own!!!! solid success.
2016-09-29 02:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little jealous to me and not so mature yourself. The only thing for you to do is accept her and try to be happy for your brother-in-law.
2006-08-09 08:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant help you out i have one of them sister in laws that you just want to grab and shake
2006-08-09 08:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a pretender. pretend u like her, & then try to tolerate her presence, & scream when u get home. GooD LucK
2006-08-09 08:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kerosene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WILL SOON BE A FACT SO JUST ACCEPT HER AS HIS WIFE. YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIKE HER. HE'S THE ONE LIVING WITH HER SO DON'T SWEAT IT.
2006-08-09 08:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep tolerating her is better than ostrcaising your brother in law.
2006-08-09 08:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice to her face, dont get around her alot and dont talk about her behind her back because chances are that it will come back to her.
2006-08-09 08:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by 128333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be pleasant. You don't have to be overly nice or go out of your way to speak to her. Just be pleasant.
2006-08-09 08:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋