ok. here's the thing...i met this guy from my work...he doesn't work at the store but he always comes in and talks to me. i really like him alot. and i think he likes me...but i don't know if it's because of who i am or because he wants a piece of a**. i went over to a friends a few weeks ago and he stayed the night b/c he'd been drinking. we slept in the livingroom and he kissed me...and then we played around a little but i didn't have sex with him because i'm a virgin and i was planning on saving myself til i was married...and yet i haven't told him this and he thinks that when i'm ready i will sleep with him...but i want to stay a virgin until i marry. but anyways..getting a little off topic. if he calls me and comes to see me at work and he trys to see me as much as possible...does this mean he wants a relationship or just to have a little fun. and should i tell him i'm not going to sleep with him...or just keep on fooling around and not tell him...???????
2006-08-09 07:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your plans and dreams for the future and be sure he knows you are going to be a virgin and give that gift to your husband. If he stays around and keeps asking, go out but keep refreshing his memory. Us guys sometimes try to change you girls minds. Be honest with him.....and yourself to girl. Is your mind made up on the subject?
2006-08-09 08:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Just Some Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl, i would say just go with it. see how far it will go. maybe ur friendship will turn into a relationship. if the guy comes around alot that means he definetly likes you. (no question) and when u get in the situation where hes ready to "do it" tell him ur saving urself...maybe by then hes fallen 4 u and not 4 what he "gets" i hope u understand that! i think its wonderful that ur saving urself! and if he ditches u or whatever then u know it just wasnt meant to be. dont let them fool u. (guys) ok well i hope i helped out!
2006-08-09 08:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've met a bunch of girls who've said their going to save themselves for marriage, but they never do - that's ridiculus. of course he trying to sleep with you - especially since you guys already fooled around - every guy that ever talks to you is trying to sleep with you - but you should let him know that your not going to sleep with him and if he keeps on talking to you then he likes you more than physically - do you at least give head? cause if you dont then your straight out of luck honey.
2006-08-09 08:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, that's the reason he's coming around so much! He thinks he's going to have sex with you!
2006-08-09 07:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by illustrat_ed_designs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him right off, in a very sexy way! You may become a challenge tho, and then you are setting yourself up emotionally. If he begins to really care about you and you him, you'll be able to tell.
2006-08-09 08:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants a piece of a$$
2006-08-09 08:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋